Good Evening My Friends,
This week totally flew by. It always does. Christmas week, thankfully, is filled with visits to family and friends and entertaining them in your home. This is truly the Most Wonderful Time of the Year.
It is New Year's Eve. The last day of the month of December 2012. This year was truly spectacular for me. So many firsts. And at 50, I'd say that is truly magnificent.
This was a week of sadness, as well. I attended the funeral of James Fiorelli, my student. It was a beautiful mass and we sang Christmas carols. Rosanne wanted the Mass to be an uplifting celebration of James' life.
I also helped my friend Larry write the eulogy for his Aunt Cass's Funeral Mass. In the eulogy, there was a part where he says, Aunt Cass, you received something invaluable, you received your wings. I suggested that ringing a bell would be appropriate. He shared this suggestion with Karen and his son, Bryan. They said, Larry that is something Mar would do, but not something you would do. So Larry opted out. During the eulogy, when he was approaching this part about Cass earning her wings, the church bells began to chime, 12 times. It was noon. They only ring the church bells on the hour during the Christmas Season. Larry said then they started playing Chirstmas Carols. He couldn't believe it. He looked at Karen and Bryan and they were stunned. Larry later conveyed that I suggested the ringing of the bell, but that he opted out. He said, Cass surely wanted those bells to be rung in her honor.
Thank God, they were. Aunt Cass sounded like an amazing woman.
I really don't want to see this year end, because it was truly so wonderful for me. Turning 50 has been exhilarating, joyful, a blessing and a gift. I actually got to celebrate and have a cake with 50 candles on it, and got to make 50 wishes. Oh that fire burned brightly on that birthday cake. But the year is ending. With every ending there is a new beginning. Someone wished me a healthier, safer year. I thought, what ever comes my way, I will choose happines and gratitude. That is MY CHOICE. You can not control what happens to you, but you can control how you handle it.
So on Wednesday, I will happily blow out 51 candles on my cake. I will make 51 wishes. And I will be thankful.
And so my wish for you, is that this year, you happily get to blow out all the candles on your cake. Here's to life and love and living our Dash.
Happy New Year. I love you!
En ` Joy,
Marialyce
Monday, December 31, 2012
Monday, December 24, 2012
Merry Christmas Eve Everyone,
My favorite season is not winter, spring, summer or fall. It is the Christmas Season. For me, it is nostalgic. So many treasured memories to recall and cherish. I had a wonderful childhood. My parents were loving, caring and giving. They made sure that I got everything I needed, not necessarily everything I wanted. However, I remember one Christmas, I asked for a TV. Mom said, sorry honey we can't afford it. I then asked for a stereo. Mom said sorry honey, we can't afford it. I asked for a cassette player. She said, I am sorry sweetie, we can't afford it. I stopped asking. On Christmas morning, all three items were beneath the tree from Santa. Somehow Santa could do what Mom and Dad could not. Magical time of the year.
This past week was very bittersweet for me. On Thursday I was out with my new friend Gail. We decorated her house for the Doylestown Christmas House Tour and she wanted to meet for dinner. I love Cafe America, so I offered my choice. As we finished eating our delicious meal and were wrapping up our conversation...we were there for 2 hours.... (we did not have much to talk about!!) I received a call from an unknown phone number. I chose not to take the call. They continued calling, about 3 more times, so I picked it up.
A few years ago I had a student, James Fiorelli. His Aunt Sarah was on the phone telling me, that James passed away. I couldn't catch my breath. I loved James. I greeted him everyday at the bus and he stayed with us until I watched him get on the bus in the afternoon. I waited until the bus pulled away everyday, for years. I am very very sad over the loss of our James. I went to his parents home, where I found them devastated over their loss. I cried with them. There was nothing more I could do. I told them that I loved him dearly and that I would pray for their family. Then I said, you know, the goal in our faith is to go home to Jesus. And James will be with Jesus this Christmas. How beautiful! I told his parents that they were wonderful, loving, giving parents who taught James manners. I would happily take him with me everywhere I went in the building. Whenever people saw James, they saw me, and whenever they saw me, they saw James. James was so social. He loved people. I would brief him as we walked the hallways mentioning all the teachers and students names that I knew and he would say Good Morning, or Good Afternoon. When yearbooks were distributed, he was able to secure the signature of our superintendent, because he called him by name! I was fortunate to spend the better part of everyday with this cherub. This very tall, very happy go lucky cherub. I know this was truly a gift in my life. James was my teacher of life lessons.
I shared some ideas with his Mom and Dad. As I texted the ideas, requesting permission to help with the memory table, if there was to be one, Rosanne texted back....Yes to all your ideas.
As I mentioned I loved James.... I love all my students.... and since the terrible tragedy in CT, I have decided that although I will not touch them, hug them or show affection toward them, because our goal is to have them be appropriate toward everyone at all times, I will share my feelings verbally, through my words. And I save memorabilia from our students. We have a Wall of Fame in our Classroom, B 101. When the students graduate, over time their pictures and mementos come down. I save everything. And so I went to my memory box and found all my things from James. I have his handwriting, his words, his art work, his pictures. I have a collection for the memory table that is so touching and heartfelt that I truly believe it expresses the kind of person James was, his essence, and will honor him in the way Rosanne expressed to me that she wanted to do with this Celebration of James' Life. Thank you God, for helping me to save all these keepsakes. I never thought I would need them, but am grateful that I saved them now.
James Funeral Mass will be at OLMC on Friday morning at 11:00 preceded by a visitation from 10 AM until the time of Mass. Friends and family will also be received on Thursday evening from 7-9 PM at Reed and Steinbach Funeral Home. God Bless James, may he REST IN PEACE.
So following my sad Thursday, on Friday we had a visit from Santa Claus in our Classroom B 101 and he brought a special gift for Mrs. Crowell. Little booties announcing the arrival of the littlest Crowell on May 8. The kids were thrilled and one student quickly marked the news in his daily planner. So Sweet. He writes down every important date, birthdays and school trips, events and announcements. You will not find any other information in this student's planner. It is a life lesson for me, on what is really important....people.
So after Santa's visit and Candy Canes for all thanks to KB, one of my Pride Council (thank you K) we had a visit from our school choir. They brought Frosty the Snowman and the choir paired up with our students and everyone was singing and smiling. Then the French class came in and sang Christmas carols in French.. I was overjoyed and filled with the spirit of Christmas. So festive and touching.
Later, B 101 the radio station played our recorded message from our classroom wishing the Delaware Valley a very HAPPY HOLIDAY SEASON... and Jen Ryan from the station announced it was now a holiday tradition! HO HO HO.
On Friday evening, The Pride, our club at school, had a holiday gathering at one of the Council Member's homes. We were having a wonderful time, laughing and telling funny stories. And then all of the sudden I went to use the restroom and saw a few of them go upstairs to the kitchen. I didn't think anything of it. When the came back down, they had the most beautiful gift for me. A collage of inspirational quotes. In just two short months they learned who I am, and what is meaningful to me. They gave me a collage of words that touched my heart. I was so emotional and started to tear up. They said, we knew this would make you cry. I told them that I loved them all very much and they responded, we love you too, Mrs. Keane. (how special is THAT OMG.... ) I told them they didn't have to do that, and they said, Oh we wanted to!
Yesterday, Jim and I went to the 8:00 Mass and saw that all three Dunn Men where home for Christmas. I knew they were coming home, but seeing the five of them together as a family just touched my heart. God Bless these men who selflessly protect our country and are so devoted to their faith and family, as well. Tim, Kevin and Tom are my true heroes. I love them all very much and am grateful for all the sacrifices they are making for our country.
Then our family went with the Lynch's to our annual Brunch at the William Penn Inn. It is one of my favorite days of the year. The meal was excellent, the company jolly and the setting beautiful with all the gold, silver, white and greenery bedecked in a festive Christmas theme.
And now here we are on Christmas Eve. Such a Holy Night tonight. May the Peace and Joy of the Christmas Season be abundant in your hearts and may you all experience the magic of the season with childlike wonder.
My wish for you this day, is that you see ever so clearly, the gift of life and love manifested in the world. And that you allow your inner light to shine brightly guiding others to the realization that We are God's gift to each other in our world.
Merry Christmas!
En ` Joy,
Marialyce
My favorite season is not winter, spring, summer or fall. It is the Christmas Season. For me, it is nostalgic. So many treasured memories to recall and cherish. I had a wonderful childhood. My parents were loving, caring and giving. They made sure that I got everything I needed, not necessarily everything I wanted. However, I remember one Christmas, I asked for a TV. Mom said, sorry honey we can't afford it. I then asked for a stereo. Mom said sorry honey, we can't afford it. I asked for a cassette player. She said, I am sorry sweetie, we can't afford it. I stopped asking. On Christmas morning, all three items were beneath the tree from Santa. Somehow Santa could do what Mom and Dad could not. Magical time of the year.
This past week was very bittersweet for me. On Thursday I was out with my new friend Gail. We decorated her house for the Doylestown Christmas House Tour and she wanted to meet for dinner. I love Cafe America, so I offered my choice. As we finished eating our delicious meal and were wrapping up our conversation...we were there for 2 hours.... (we did not have much to talk about!!) I received a call from an unknown phone number. I chose not to take the call. They continued calling, about 3 more times, so I picked it up.
A few years ago I had a student, James Fiorelli. His Aunt Sarah was on the phone telling me, that James passed away. I couldn't catch my breath. I loved James. I greeted him everyday at the bus and he stayed with us until I watched him get on the bus in the afternoon. I waited until the bus pulled away everyday, for years. I am very very sad over the loss of our James. I went to his parents home, where I found them devastated over their loss. I cried with them. There was nothing more I could do. I told them that I loved him dearly and that I would pray for their family. Then I said, you know, the goal in our faith is to go home to Jesus. And James will be with Jesus this Christmas. How beautiful! I told his parents that they were wonderful, loving, giving parents who taught James manners. I would happily take him with me everywhere I went in the building. Whenever people saw James, they saw me, and whenever they saw me, they saw James. James was so social. He loved people. I would brief him as we walked the hallways mentioning all the teachers and students names that I knew and he would say Good Morning, or Good Afternoon. When yearbooks were distributed, he was able to secure the signature of our superintendent, because he called him by name! I was fortunate to spend the better part of everyday with this cherub. This very tall, very happy go lucky cherub. I know this was truly a gift in my life. James was my teacher of life lessons.
I shared some ideas with his Mom and Dad. As I texted the ideas, requesting permission to help with the memory table, if there was to be one, Rosanne texted back....Yes to all your ideas.
As I mentioned I loved James.... I love all my students.... and since the terrible tragedy in CT, I have decided that although I will not touch them, hug them or show affection toward them, because our goal is to have them be appropriate toward everyone at all times, I will share my feelings verbally, through my words. And I save memorabilia from our students. We have a Wall of Fame in our Classroom, B 101. When the students graduate, over time their pictures and mementos come down. I save everything. And so I went to my memory box and found all my things from James. I have his handwriting, his words, his art work, his pictures. I have a collection for the memory table that is so touching and heartfelt that I truly believe it expresses the kind of person James was, his essence, and will honor him in the way Rosanne expressed to me that she wanted to do with this Celebration of James' Life. Thank you God, for helping me to save all these keepsakes. I never thought I would need them, but am grateful that I saved them now.
James Funeral Mass will be at OLMC on Friday morning at 11:00 preceded by a visitation from 10 AM until the time of Mass. Friends and family will also be received on Thursday evening from 7-9 PM at Reed and Steinbach Funeral Home. God Bless James, may he REST IN PEACE.
So following my sad Thursday, on Friday we had a visit from Santa Claus in our Classroom B 101 and he brought a special gift for Mrs. Crowell. Little booties announcing the arrival of the littlest Crowell on May 8. The kids were thrilled and one student quickly marked the news in his daily planner. So Sweet. He writes down every important date, birthdays and school trips, events and announcements. You will not find any other information in this student's planner. It is a life lesson for me, on what is really important....people.
So after Santa's visit and Candy Canes for all thanks to KB, one of my Pride Council (thank you K) we had a visit from our school choir. They brought Frosty the Snowman and the choir paired up with our students and everyone was singing and smiling. Then the French class came in and sang Christmas carols in French.. I was overjoyed and filled with the spirit of Christmas. So festive and touching.
Later, B 101 the radio station played our recorded message from our classroom wishing the Delaware Valley a very HAPPY HOLIDAY SEASON... and Jen Ryan from the station announced it was now a holiday tradition! HO HO HO.
On Friday evening, The Pride, our club at school, had a holiday gathering at one of the Council Member's homes. We were having a wonderful time, laughing and telling funny stories. And then all of the sudden I went to use the restroom and saw a few of them go upstairs to the kitchen. I didn't think anything of it. When the came back down, they had the most beautiful gift for me. A collage of inspirational quotes. In just two short months they learned who I am, and what is meaningful to me. They gave me a collage of words that touched my heart. I was so emotional and started to tear up. They said, we knew this would make you cry. I told them that I loved them all very much and they responded, we love you too, Mrs. Keane. (how special is THAT OMG.... ) I told them they didn't have to do that, and they said, Oh we wanted to!
Yesterday, Jim and I went to the 8:00 Mass and saw that all three Dunn Men where home for Christmas. I knew they were coming home, but seeing the five of them together as a family just touched my heart. God Bless these men who selflessly protect our country and are so devoted to their faith and family, as well. Tim, Kevin and Tom are my true heroes. I love them all very much and am grateful for all the sacrifices they are making for our country.
Then our family went with the Lynch's to our annual Brunch at the William Penn Inn. It is one of my favorite days of the year. The meal was excellent, the company jolly and the setting beautiful with all the gold, silver, white and greenery bedecked in a festive Christmas theme.
And now here we are on Christmas Eve. Such a Holy Night tonight. May the Peace and Joy of the Christmas Season be abundant in your hearts and may you all experience the magic of the season with childlike wonder.
My wish for you this day, is that you see ever so clearly, the gift of life and love manifested in the world. And that you allow your inner light to shine brightly guiding others to the realization that We are God's gift to each other in our world.
Merry Christmas!
En ` Joy,
Marialyce
Wednesday, December 19, 2012
Good Evening Everyone,
I have not been blogging because I don't have much to say. We are sad. On Monday, one of my students asked to speak to me in the hallway. She said, Mrs. Keane am I safe here? She said, "Mom said to ask that question to your teachers." I looked into her eyes and said, I will do everything I can to keep you and all the other children safe. Your safety and well being is the most important thing to me. She started crying and I just hugged her. I wanted to get her mind off of the tragedy and back on task.
Then I just began looking at all their little faces. So unknowing and yet they are hearing about the tragedy and are unable to understand. Even I don't understand. I thought, I want them to know how I feel. I said, I want you all to listen to me very carefully. You are all very good listeners. You listen to what you are told to do and you do it and that is a very good decision. I love you very much. Each and every one of you. I love you. As I looked into their eyes, they started nodding and said, I Know. I thought, You know, and yet I have never told you. I said, I will ALWAYS DO EVERYTHING I CAN TO KEEP YOU SAFE, and because you are good listeners you will follow our lead. They just get this look in their eye every once in a while and don't say anything. I just extend my hand and when they extend theirs I cover it with my other hand. I am winking more at them these days. How do you reassure a frightened child? And then multiply that by 24?
Yesterday, I called the radio station B 101. Our classroom is B101 and we have had an ongoing relationship for years with the radio station. The marketing director has given us promotional materials for our classroom, t shirts and even sent Buzz Bee to our high school for an event. So, we call every year during the holidays and wish the Delaware Valley a Happy Holiday Season and everyone at the radio station welcomes us warmly. The kids feel like celebrities. I guess it doesn't help that I get so excited over the whole thing, like a child on Christmas Morning. I tell them, get ready because once the recorded message is heard by friends and family you will be asked for your autograph.
The producer of B 101 is a graduate of our high school and said " We love this" ( that we are B101 and that we call and wish everyone happy holidays.) Our school makes district wide announcements and our superintendent tweets highlights and events that occur in our district. So everyone will know to tune in to B 101 this holiday season and listen for our well wishes. So festive!
We have been waiting and waiting, but have not heard our message yet. Today the producer told us that our wishes will be heard between 9 and 2 on Friday. Stay tuned.
And so we had a few moments of joy today and I believe there will be more. However, I know that I am even more acutely aware of the gift of life each day and I treasure every moment I share with my students and all my family and friends.
I love you all very much.
My wish for you this evening is that you are granted a moment of joy that lights up your life.
En `Joy,
Marialyce
I have not been blogging because I don't have much to say. We are sad. On Monday, one of my students asked to speak to me in the hallway. She said, Mrs. Keane am I safe here? She said, "Mom said to ask that question to your teachers." I looked into her eyes and said, I will do everything I can to keep you and all the other children safe. Your safety and well being is the most important thing to me. She started crying and I just hugged her. I wanted to get her mind off of the tragedy and back on task.
Then I just began looking at all their little faces. So unknowing and yet they are hearing about the tragedy and are unable to understand. Even I don't understand. I thought, I want them to know how I feel. I said, I want you all to listen to me very carefully. You are all very good listeners. You listen to what you are told to do and you do it and that is a very good decision. I love you very much. Each and every one of you. I love you. As I looked into their eyes, they started nodding and said, I Know. I thought, You know, and yet I have never told you. I said, I will ALWAYS DO EVERYTHING I CAN TO KEEP YOU SAFE, and because you are good listeners you will follow our lead. They just get this look in their eye every once in a while and don't say anything. I just extend my hand and when they extend theirs I cover it with my other hand. I am winking more at them these days. How do you reassure a frightened child? And then multiply that by 24?
Yesterday, I called the radio station B 101. Our classroom is B101 and we have had an ongoing relationship for years with the radio station. The marketing director has given us promotional materials for our classroom, t shirts and even sent Buzz Bee to our high school for an event. So, we call every year during the holidays and wish the Delaware Valley a Happy Holiday Season and everyone at the radio station welcomes us warmly. The kids feel like celebrities. I guess it doesn't help that I get so excited over the whole thing, like a child on Christmas Morning. I tell them, get ready because once the recorded message is heard by friends and family you will be asked for your autograph.
The producer of B 101 is a graduate of our high school and said " We love this" ( that we are B101 and that we call and wish everyone happy holidays.) Our school makes district wide announcements and our superintendent tweets highlights and events that occur in our district. So everyone will know to tune in to B 101 this holiday season and listen for our well wishes. So festive!
We have been waiting and waiting, but have not heard our message yet. Today the producer told us that our wishes will be heard between 9 and 2 on Friday. Stay tuned.
And so we had a few moments of joy today and I believe there will be more. However, I know that I am even more acutely aware of the gift of life each day and I treasure every moment I share with my students and all my family and friends.
I love you all very much.
My wish for you this evening is that you are granted a moment of joy that lights up your life.
En `Joy,
Marialyce
Sunday, December 16, 2012
Good Evening My Friends,
Please pray for all the families in Newtown CT. They need the prayers of our Nation! On Monday, December 17, 2012....people will be wearing blue and yellow, the school colors of Sandy Hook in memory of all the children and adults who lost their lives. God bless the children, heroes, and families of those in Newtown CT.
May they rest in peace.
En ` Sadness,
~Marialyce
Please pray for all the families in Newtown CT. They need the prayers of our Nation! On Monday, December 17, 2012....people will be wearing blue and yellow, the school colors of Sandy Hook in memory of all the children and adults who lost their lives. God bless the children, heroes, and families of those in Newtown CT.
May they rest in peace.
En ` Sadness,
~Marialyce
Monday, December 10, 2012
Hello My Friends,
This weekend flew by. The Doylestown Christmas House Tour was a huge success. The house I worked on was so lovely on Friday evening. Lisa, the lead decorator on the house graced this lovely Victorian home with the most beautiful flower arrangements. The house was alive with the beauty of the season. I also liked the Ball House on the tour, located on Court Street. I don't know who the decorators of that home were but they did an outstanding job.
I also worked for my friend Christopher Willett, a Bucks County impressionist artist. He held his Art Show at his gallery, Village Artworks in Lahaska, Pennsylvania, Peddlers Village. The show was a success and there were so many interesting people who attended the show. One gentleman was Herman Silverman who owns Silverman's Gallery. He commented that Chris Willett was the best living artist in Bucks County today. His art is superior to all other artists. Wow! Mr. Silverman is in his 90's and he knows art. What a compliment to Chris. I really enjoyed working at both events and feel blessed to be doing something that I love, decorating and hospitality.
Our club, The Pride, is gathering more members incrementally. We are fortunate to have another wonderful speaker agree to speak at our next General Meeting on December 20. The topic will be listening to your heart, even when decisions are difficult. The speaker is a dynamic woman in the district who is well respected, interesting and personable. The members of Council are stepping up and doing a great deal of work. All the students are dedicated to The Pride, conscientious and have a strong work ethic. I enjoy working with them.
Shawn shared the most wonderful video with me and I hope to share it with you. It is very moving and captures the true spirit of the Christmas Season. I will provide the link for all of you to view.
And so, my wish for you this evening is that you view the video and Hear the Angel's voices. They are magnificent.
En `Joy,
Marialyce
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cu_iPDPDMtY&feature=player_embedded
This weekend flew by. The Doylestown Christmas House Tour was a huge success. The house I worked on was so lovely on Friday evening. Lisa, the lead decorator on the house graced this lovely Victorian home with the most beautiful flower arrangements. The house was alive with the beauty of the season. I also liked the Ball House on the tour, located on Court Street. I don't know who the decorators of that home were but they did an outstanding job.
I also worked for my friend Christopher Willett, a Bucks County impressionist artist. He held his Art Show at his gallery, Village Artworks in Lahaska, Pennsylvania, Peddlers Village. The show was a success and there were so many interesting people who attended the show. One gentleman was Herman Silverman who owns Silverman's Gallery. He commented that Chris Willett was the best living artist in Bucks County today. His art is superior to all other artists. Wow! Mr. Silverman is in his 90's and he knows art. What a compliment to Chris. I really enjoyed working at both events and feel blessed to be doing something that I love, decorating and hospitality.
Our club, The Pride, is gathering more members incrementally. We are fortunate to have another wonderful speaker agree to speak at our next General Meeting on December 20. The topic will be listening to your heart, even when decisions are difficult. The speaker is a dynamic woman in the district who is well respected, interesting and personable. The members of Council are stepping up and doing a great deal of work. All the students are dedicated to The Pride, conscientious and have a strong work ethic. I enjoy working with them.
Shawn shared the most wonderful video with me and I hope to share it with you. It is very moving and captures the true spirit of the Christmas Season. I will provide the link for all of you to view.
And so, my wish for you this evening is that you view the video and Hear the Angel's voices. They are magnificent.
En `Joy,
Marialyce
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cu_iPDPDMtY&feature=player_embedded
Thursday, December 6, 2012
Hello All,
I have been wearing my elf hat and decorating one of the four homes on the Doylestown Christmas House Tour, these past few evenings. The house that I am working on is a Victorian in the Queen Anne style. Very romantic and decorated with modern, chic furniture and accessories. Warm and elegant. I have enjoyed every moment of time there with Gail, Lisa, Kim, Ruth, Chrysa, and Jeanne. We decorated on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday night and the lead, Lisa said that we accomplished everything that was on her to do list and didn't need to work tonight. So I have the night off.
I had my club meeting today, after school. I presented our club, THE PRIDE, to the faculty on Monday afternoon, at our faculty meeting. I have a personal challenge of 10 % reaction, either a positive or negative response. If 10 % of the people respond to what I say, either negatively or positively then it is a sign for me that I should continue doing what I am doing. Twenty Five teachers all said they were interested in receiving our posters and hanging them in their classrooms.
There were 90 teachers present. I shared that information with the members of The Pride and it was suggested that we discuss how to thank all the teachers for their support. These kids are exceptional.
On Friday night, Judy, my sister in law and I will go on the tour. Then we will grab a bite to eat at Tomatoes, a bistro in Doylestown. We did that last year and had a wonderful time.
I read a quote that sums up my feelings today.
"Happiness lies in the joy of achievement and the thrill of creative effort." ~Franklin Roosevelt
So true. And so for this evening, I wish you exactly what Roosevelt said, the joy of achievement and the thrill of your personal creative effort. Nothing like it!
En` Joy,
~Marialyce
I have been wearing my elf hat and decorating one of the four homes on the Doylestown Christmas House Tour, these past few evenings. The house that I am working on is a Victorian in the Queen Anne style. Very romantic and decorated with modern, chic furniture and accessories. Warm and elegant. I have enjoyed every moment of time there with Gail, Lisa, Kim, Ruth, Chrysa, and Jeanne. We decorated on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday night and the lead, Lisa said that we accomplished everything that was on her to do list and didn't need to work tonight. So I have the night off.
I had my club meeting today, after school. I presented our club, THE PRIDE, to the faculty on Monday afternoon, at our faculty meeting. I have a personal challenge of 10 % reaction, either a positive or negative response. If 10 % of the people respond to what I say, either negatively or positively then it is a sign for me that I should continue doing what I am doing. Twenty Five teachers all said they were interested in receiving our posters and hanging them in their classrooms.
There were 90 teachers present. I shared that information with the members of The Pride and it was suggested that we discuss how to thank all the teachers for their support. These kids are exceptional.
On Friday night, Judy, my sister in law and I will go on the tour. Then we will grab a bite to eat at Tomatoes, a bistro in Doylestown. We did that last year and had a wonderful time.
I read a quote that sums up my feelings today.
"Happiness lies in the joy of achievement and the thrill of creative effort." ~Franklin Roosevelt
So true. And so for this evening, I wish you exactly what Roosevelt said, the joy of achievement and the thrill of your personal creative effort. Nothing like it!
En` Joy,
~Marialyce
Sunday, December 2, 2012
http://play.simpletruths.com/movie/212-the-extra-degree/
Hello Everyone,
I was having trouble posting the Principle. I hope this link works for all of you.
Great methodology for life!
En` Joy,
Love,
M
Hello Everyone,
I was having trouble posting the Principle. I hope this link works for all of you.
Great methodology for life!
En` Joy,
Love,
M
Hello My Dear Friends,
Some exciting news.... I would like to share a story. In the past year I lost $30.00 which was a collection of money from a group of people at school which was to be given to another, who was the recipient. When I went to give the money to the recipient, I realized it was gone. A student found the money and I was so overjoyed by this selfless action, that I wrote a letter to our community newspaper acknowledging the integrity and honesty of this young woman and praising her for making such a good choice to do the right thing.
We have a district wide program that partners with Outback Steakhouse, honoring students on a monthly basis, who lead by example and commending them for their good deeds. There is an asset that is chosen, November's Asset was Honesty, and I recommended the young woman who found the money.
I wrote an essay about this young woman and learned that she was chosen not only as the winner for our school but as the winner throughout the whole district, for the month of November. Tomorrow at noon her parents, teachers, administrators and the people from the community program will be at school to honor this extraordinary young woman. I am so excited for her. She will be surprised to receive a plaque of recognition, an invitation to a reception along with all the other chosen recipients throughout the school year, which will be held at the end of the year, and a gift certificate for her and her family to Outback Steakhouse. I have come to know her and DC is an exceptional young woman. Actually, her reputation preceeds her.
Tomorrow I also present our Club that I have been working on diligently, since September, to the faculty at our school. I will speak briefly about the club, hopefully igniting their curiosity to learn more about it. I hope that the presentation is well received.
I received an email with the following quotations...
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." ~ Robert Brault
"There are no ordinary moments." ~ Dan Millman
I realize, all too well, how true these statements are and am thankful for my life and all the blue moments that I have experienced. I have a lifetime of precious memories that I can recall so easily in my mind. I can be transcended immediately to that time and place and see myself so happy and content.
Last night we had our friends, Regina and Tom here for dinner. Shawn came home and sat at the table and engaged them in conversation. When she walked away they said, Shawn is delightful. You must be so proud. Jim and I are truly proud of who Shawn is and thankful for the blessing she is in our lives.
And so, my wish for you this day, is that you realize many extraordinary moments, and that you take to heart the following principle that I have learned and am sharing with you. I am sending it under a new post.
En` Joy
Marialyce
Some exciting news.... I would like to share a story. In the past year I lost $30.00 which was a collection of money from a group of people at school which was to be given to another, who was the recipient. When I went to give the money to the recipient, I realized it was gone. A student found the money and I was so overjoyed by this selfless action, that I wrote a letter to our community newspaper acknowledging the integrity and honesty of this young woman and praising her for making such a good choice to do the right thing.
We have a district wide program that partners with Outback Steakhouse, honoring students on a monthly basis, who lead by example and commending them for their good deeds. There is an asset that is chosen, November's Asset was Honesty, and I recommended the young woman who found the money.
I wrote an essay about this young woman and learned that she was chosen not only as the winner for our school but as the winner throughout the whole district, for the month of November. Tomorrow at noon her parents, teachers, administrators and the people from the community program will be at school to honor this extraordinary young woman. I am so excited for her. She will be surprised to receive a plaque of recognition, an invitation to a reception along with all the other chosen recipients throughout the school year, which will be held at the end of the year, and a gift certificate for her and her family to Outback Steakhouse. I have come to know her and DC is an exceptional young woman. Actually, her reputation preceeds her.
Tomorrow I also present our Club that I have been working on diligently, since September, to the faculty at our school. I will speak briefly about the club, hopefully igniting their curiosity to learn more about it. I hope that the presentation is well received.
I received an email with the following quotations...
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." ~ Robert Brault
"There are no ordinary moments." ~ Dan Millman
I realize, all too well, how true these statements are and am thankful for my life and all the blue moments that I have experienced. I have a lifetime of precious memories that I can recall so easily in my mind. I can be transcended immediately to that time and place and see myself so happy and content.
Last night we had our friends, Regina and Tom here for dinner. Shawn came home and sat at the table and engaged them in conversation. When she walked away they said, Shawn is delightful. You must be so proud. Jim and I are truly proud of who Shawn is and thankful for the blessing she is in our lives.
And so, my wish for you this day, is that you realize many extraordinary moments, and that you take to heart the following principle that I have learned and am sharing with you. I am sending it under a new post.
En` Joy
Marialyce
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Thursday, November 29, 2012
Good Evening Everyone,
I received very good news ..... My BRCA genetic testing, which was a genetic test for the breast cancer gene, was negative. This means that neither one of my parents carried the gene, they could not have passed it on to me, and therefore I can not pass it on to Shawn and Lindsay, because I do not carry the gene. My breast cancer was caused by environmental factors.
It is a tremendous relief for me, because although I have passed on my traits to my daughters, I really didn't want to pass on the breast cancer gene. To me, that would be devastating. I don't want my girls to have to go through all that I have gone through, in their life. I hope they have babies one day and nurse them forever, and love every moment of that bonding experience. Please God!
Today I received a beautiful email from my friend, Joan. It started out.... Thanks for being angels in my life.... Joan, my beautiful friend Joan, thinks that I am an angel in her life. Wow!
The email begins..... You are in your car driving home. Thoughts wander to the game you want to see or meal you want to eat, when suddenly a sound unlike any you've ever heard fills the air. The sound is high above you. A trumpet? A choir? A choir of trumpets? You don't know, but you want to know..... So you pull over, get out of your car and look up.. As you do, you see you are not the only curious one. The roadside has become a parking lot. Car doors are open, people are staring at the sky... Shoppers are racing out of the grocery store. The Little League baseball game across the street has come to a halt. Players and parents are searching the clouds And what they see, and what you see, has never before been seen.
As if the sky were a curtain, the drapes of the atmosphere part.... a brilliant light spills onto the earth... There are no shadows. None. From every hue ever seen and a million more never seen... Riding on the flow is an endless fleet of angels. They pass through the curtain one myriad at a time, until they occupy every square inch of the sky. North....South ..... East.... West.
Thousands of silvery wings rise and fall in unison, and over the sound of trumpets, you can hear the cherubim and the seraphim chanting, "Holy, Holy, Holy..." The final flank of angels is followed by twenty-four silver bearded elders and a multitude of souls who join the angels in worship. Suddenly, the heavens are quiet. All is quiet. The angels turn, you turn, the entire world turns and there HE IS.... Jesus.
Through waves of light you see the silhouetted figure of Christ the King. He is atop a great stallion, and the stallion is atop a billowing cloud. He opens His mouth, and you are surrounded by His declaration: " I am the Alpha and the Omega." The angels bow their heads.... The elders remove their crowns...And before you is a Figure so consuming that you KNOW, instantly you know: Nothing else matters... Forget stock markets and school reports: Sales meetings and football games.. Nothing is newsworthy... All that mattered, matters no more... For Christ Has Come.
Oh my goodness... Whoever wrote this, wrote something so visually compelling that it brought tears to my eyes. I am so thankful that Joan shared this with me. Thank you, Joan.
I really hope that when my last day on earth comes, and I am called to heaven, that Jesus comes for me with all the angels. How breathtaking would that be. I can assure you, I will run to the light... I am not afraid to die.
My life has been truly magnificent. I have been so blessed to have my wonderful parents who had a beautiful marriage and gave me the most awesome childhood. There was enough. Enough love, time, attention, food, shelter, financial resources, clothing and joy. I have been blessed to have my good and loving husband and beautiful healthy daughters, my dear family and friends. And I am blessed to have all the people who have entered my life in the last year and four months. I realize that life is all about perspective. I am grateful for every single moment of time shared with everyone. And when Jesus comes, I will get to see my Mom and Dad again. Oh happy day!
And so, my wish for you this day, is that you choose to see all the blessings in your life and feel gratitude in your heart. This is the only November 29, 2012 that you will ever receive!
En `Joy,
Marialyce
I received very good news ..... My BRCA genetic testing, which was a genetic test for the breast cancer gene, was negative. This means that neither one of my parents carried the gene, they could not have passed it on to me, and therefore I can not pass it on to Shawn and Lindsay, because I do not carry the gene. My breast cancer was caused by environmental factors.
It is a tremendous relief for me, because although I have passed on my traits to my daughters, I really didn't want to pass on the breast cancer gene. To me, that would be devastating. I don't want my girls to have to go through all that I have gone through, in their life. I hope they have babies one day and nurse them forever, and love every moment of that bonding experience. Please God!
Today I received a beautiful email from my friend, Joan. It started out.... Thanks for being angels in my life.... Joan, my beautiful friend Joan, thinks that I am an angel in her life. Wow!
The email begins..... You are in your car driving home. Thoughts wander to the game you want to see or meal you want to eat, when suddenly a sound unlike any you've ever heard fills the air. The sound is high above you. A trumpet? A choir? A choir of trumpets? You don't know, but you want to know..... So you pull over, get out of your car and look up.. As you do, you see you are not the only curious one. The roadside has become a parking lot. Car doors are open, people are staring at the sky... Shoppers are racing out of the grocery store. The Little League baseball game across the street has come to a halt. Players and parents are searching the clouds And what they see, and what you see, has never before been seen.
As if the sky were a curtain, the drapes of the atmosphere part.... a brilliant light spills onto the earth... There are no shadows. None. From every hue ever seen and a million more never seen... Riding on the flow is an endless fleet of angels. They pass through the curtain one myriad at a time, until they occupy every square inch of the sky. North....South ..... East.... West.
Thousands of silvery wings rise and fall in unison, and over the sound of trumpets, you can hear the cherubim and the seraphim chanting, "Holy, Holy, Holy..." The final flank of angels is followed by twenty-four silver bearded elders and a multitude of souls who join the angels in worship. Suddenly, the heavens are quiet. All is quiet. The angels turn, you turn, the entire world turns and there HE IS.... Jesus.
Through waves of light you see the silhouetted figure of Christ the King. He is atop a great stallion, and the stallion is atop a billowing cloud. He opens His mouth, and you are surrounded by His declaration: " I am the Alpha and the Omega." The angels bow their heads.... The elders remove their crowns...And before you is a Figure so consuming that you KNOW, instantly you know: Nothing else matters... Forget stock markets and school reports: Sales meetings and football games.. Nothing is newsworthy... All that mattered, matters no more... For Christ Has Come.
Oh my goodness... Whoever wrote this, wrote something so visually compelling that it brought tears to my eyes. I am so thankful that Joan shared this with me. Thank you, Joan.
I really hope that when my last day on earth comes, and I am called to heaven, that Jesus comes for me with all the angels. How breathtaking would that be. I can assure you, I will run to the light... I am not afraid to die.
My life has been truly magnificent. I have been so blessed to have my wonderful parents who had a beautiful marriage and gave me the most awesome childhood. There was enough. Enough love, time, attention, food, shelter, financial resources, clothing and joy. I have been blessed to have my good and loving husband and beautiful healthy daughters, my dear family and friends. And I am blessed to have all the people who have entered my life in the last year and four months. I realize that life is all about perspective. I am grateful for every single moment of time shared with everyone. And when Jesus comes, I will get to see my Mom and Dad again. Oh happy day!
And so, my wish for you this day, is that you choose to see all the blessings in your life and feel gratitude in your heart. This is the only November 29, 2012 that you will ever receive!
En `Joy,
Marialyce
Monday, November 26, 2012
Good Evening Dear Friends,
It was good to see all my students again after Thanksgiving break. They are all such "good eggs." I feel so fortunate that I get to spend my days with them. I was paid the sweetest compliment, today. I greeted each student as they came into the classroom this morning and told them that I missed them. One young man said, Mrs. Keane you are beautiful. OH MY GOODNESS. He is so cute. Our students do not edit or have filters. They just say whatever is on their minds. Sometimes it is good, some times not so good and sometimes, it is a BLUE MOMENT. Thank you DK for my Blue Moment today.
Our Friday evening with the Lynch's was fun. Tim is hilarious and the four of us laughed so much as we walked the main street in Newtown, dined at Jake's and walked around and reminisced in Feeney's. We decided to include the Lynch's next year for Thanksgiving and then spend Black Friday evening with them, enjoying the sights and sounds of Christmas. Actually, Tim and I challenged Jim and Anita to plan our next adventure. We shall see if they can top our Black Friday evening. I am filled with anticipation over this challenge. I love surprises.
Tomorrow we were taking our students to Rice's Market, but due to the impending inclement weather, we changed our plans to Happy Tymes. We will go bowling instead. Tomorrow will just be too cold and snowy to walk around Rice's Market. This is the second time we had to reschedule this trip. Once last year and now tomorrow. We have never taken our student's to Rice's Market. It is an acceptable place were they can go and tender the best amount, applying the money skills learned in the classroom to an authentic, experiential learning environment. All other business establishments in our area, are not cost effective.
I received an email today with the following message attached:
What you dwell on is what you will draw into your life. We can either focus on our problems, or we can focus on our blessings. The question is do you want more problems, or do you want more blessings? One thing I've noticed is that when you live with an attitude of constant gratitude, not only do you thank God for what He's done in your life, you start thanking Him for what He will do in your life. You thank Him for opening doors for you in the future. You thank Him for increasing you. You thank Him for bringing the right people into your life. When we say, "Thank You" to God for the things that are coming, it's really a declaration of our faith in Him. It's like saying in essence, "God, I'm so sure of Your goodness, I'm so sure that You are working in my life that I'm going to thank you right now for what You are going to do tomorrow!" Now that is the kind of faith that pleases God.
And so, my wish for you this evening, is that you say a prayer of thanks for all your blessings, and that you thank God in advance for all the blessings that will be bestowed upon you.
En` Joy,
Marialyce
It was good to see all my students again after Thanksgiving break. They are all such "good eggs." I feel so fortunate that I get to spend my days with them. I was paid the sweetest compliment, today. I greeted each student as they came into the classroom this morning and told them that I missed them. One young man said, Mrs. Keane you are beautiful. OH MY GOODNESS. He is so cute. Our students do not edit or have filters. They just say whatever is on their minds. Sometimes it is good, some times not so good and sometimes, it is a BLUE MOMENT. Thank you DK for my Blue Moment today.
Our Friday evening with the Lynch's was fun. Tim is hilarious and the four of us laughed so much as we walked the main street in Newtown, dined at Jake's and walked around and reminisced in Feeney's. We decided to include the Lynch's next year for Thanksgiving and then spend Black Friday evening with them, enjoying the sights and sounds of Christmas. Actually, Tim and I challenged Jim and Anita to plan our next adventure. We shall see if they can top our Black Friday evening. I am filled with anticipation over this challenge. I love surprises.
Tomorrow we were taking our students to Rice's Market, but due to the impending inclement weather, we changed our plans to Happy Tymes. We will go bowling instead. Tomorrow will just be too cold and snowy to walk around Rice's Market. This is the second time we had to reschedule this trip. Once last year and now tomorrow. We have never taken our student's to Rice's Market. It is an acceptable place were they can go and tender the best amount, applying the money skills learned in the classroom to an authentic, experiential learning environment. All other business establishments in our area, are not cost effective.
I received an email today with the following message attached:
What you dwell on is what you will draw into your life. We can either focus on our problems, or we can focus on our blessings. The question is do you want more problems, or do you want more blessings? One thing I've noticed is that when you live with an attitude of constant gratitude, not only do you thank God for what He's done in your life, you start thanking Him for what He will do in your life. You thank Him for opening doors for you in the future. You thank Him for increasing you. You thank Him for bringing the right people into your life. When we say, "Thank You" to God for the things that are coming, it's really a declaration of our faith in Him. It's like saying in essence, "God, I'm so sure of Your goodness, I'm so sure that You are working in my life that I'm going to thank you right now for what You are going to do tomorrow!" Now that is the kind of faith that pleases God.
And so, my wish for you this evening, is that you say a prayer of thanks for all your blessings, and that you thank God in advance for all the blessings that will be bestowed upon you.
En` Joy,
Marialyce
Friday, November 23, 2012
Good Morning Everyone,
I have been in a whirlwind. I said to Jim, I can't believe all these days have come and gone. Do you notice that time seems to be elusive? This is my season, my favorite season. The Christmas Season!!! And I love to prepare for the holidays. I prepare early. Well earlier than most of my friends and family. It is because I want to accept every invitation, attend every open house at every garden center in our Bucks County area. Bucks County is just beautiful but at Christmas time, ohhhh. It just shines.
So I have been decorating our home for Christmas and attended Bucks Country Gardens and the Rhodes Garden Open House. I went to Bucks Country Gardens alone, and with my friend Joan to the Rhodes Garden, Robertson's and the Hill Company on our recent outing. This past Sunday, I hosted 16 of my Special Ed graduates in our home for our Third Annual Holiday Gathering. I make the phone call, and invite them and their parents, if they wish to attend. It is OK with me if parents just want to drop the young people off, because the young people know what is expected. The rules are, you must not share that you were invited to my home, because we can not have everyone and choose not include those students who have not graduated yet. Attending the holiday gathering is like reunion time. So they must not talk about me or the gathering on the phone, Internet or any social media site. They understand. Then I ask them to dress as if we are going to the Keswick. They love to get dressed up for this gathering. Thirdly, I say, your parents will probably say, we need to take something to the Keane's. If they do, please say to your parents, Mrs. Keane just wants us to bring ourselves and our parents. She said so.
So Sunday at 4pm, like clock work, they all arrived, with beautiful smiles. OH MY GOODNESS, my heart was filled with Joy. The young people were warm and funny and polite. Tom and Pat and Pat's brother, Michael came and Tom played Christmas songs on the guitar, while Joan led the sing along. At one point, the kids asked me to sing a song, (I can't sing) and so I lip synced while Joan stood behind me and sang. They loved it. So much fun. We went around the table and each person shared something about what they were doing presently. There are 4 birthdays among the group in the month of November. I said to Jim I think I should get a cake. He said, you made all these treats, sandwiches, cheese and crackers and dips. It is enough. I didn't want to go against him, he is so amazing with all that he does to help me facilitate the day. But I kind of wanted a cake. With that, one of my students walked in and has not one but two boxes in his arms. He said, I went to this little bakery, Mrs. Keane, and saw these two cakes and I just wanted to get them. That was a blue moment. How did he know I wanted a cake? I think it was divine intervention. When we sang Happy Birthday and cut the cake, we discovered that we had 35 guests and needed BOTH cakes. God is awesome and so is CD. I am so thankful CD listened to his heart that day.
So after the gathering, we had 10 for dinner. The Zaneski's, Fuller's and Keane's sat down to a crock pot chicken dinner with crab macaroni and cheese and salad. It was a perfect ending to a perfect day.
The next day I met my friend Connie at Good Eats, the diner in Doylestown. Paul and Andrea Markert, Joan's nephew and niece own the establishment and the food is yummy. Connie was kind enough to treat me to my delicious omelet and it was on the promise to pay forward the gift of being treated to her retirement luncheon by her friend, Diane. So now I will pay it forward. Whom shall I choose???? Hmmm
After breakfast, I met up with my friend Susan. Susan was a principal years ago at our high school and now is living her best life. She met up with a friend for lunch in Doylestown but stopped here on her way and we shared some tea, stories and conversation. I KNOW that Susan is a piece of the puzzle in my life. I don't have the full understanding, yet, but I know she is an integral part of my life tapestry.
Susan shared a few concepts with me. And because I believe, Knowledge is Power, and I want to empower others, I will share what she taught me. There is something called The Most Respectful Interpretation. Look it up. Google It. It means that we will not spend our precious time with others judging WHY they are saying or doing things. We will honor them by having the MOST RESPECTFUL INTERPRETATION OF THEIR ACTIONS AND THOUGHTS. We will trust that they are working, sharing, doing for the good of the whole and that their intention is to bring everyone and everything in the moment to its highest intention. I love it!
Susan said Marialyce, you and I are a lot alike. I do agree with her to some degree, but she has her doctorate in education and is so incredibly intelligent and dynamic. Charismatic really. I think I pale in comparison. But it is not about comparison. It is bringing each other along and helping each other to reach our potential, our greatness, our excellence. I said, Susan, you came into my life just when I needed you, all those years ago. I didn't even know I needed you and you were there. She responded, Oh no, Marialyce, it was me who needed you! Wow! I am thankful for Susan. I said, I don't know what it is, but you give me this something.... This something that I need. She said, Marialyce, I "SEE YOU." Not the physical you, but the You, your soul. I validate who you are and the mission that you are on. I said, OH YES YOU DO! I love the AHA moments in my life. This moment actually turned into another Blue Moment. Susan and I will work together again soon. I can just feel it!
Then on Tuesday I had my doctor's appointments. I was tested for the BRCA I and BRCA II genes for breast cancer. Results will be in 2 weeks. I am finding out if this breast cancer was a genetic predisposition or just a freak of nature. There is no history of women having breast cancer on either side of my family, however, I recollect that my Uncle Bill on my father's side was diagnosed with breast cancer when he was about 65, thirty five years ago. I will be pleased to know if I have the gene or not, so I know if Shawn and Lindsay need to be tested. Please God, don't let me pass on something this grave to my cherubs. I don't want them to have to bear this cross. I will do anything to keep them out of harm's way. Please God.
Then I saw Beth DuPree my surgeon. I love her. She gave me a good report, although I must say that I am lacking energy and my back bothers me. I don't know what it is, but am not fearful of any cancer returning. I am concerned about this woman I work with, Holly. I am keeping her close to my heart and in my continuous thoughts and prayers. Please pray for Holly.
Later on Tuesday, I met my friend, Sue for lunch at the Olive Garden. It is our place to go. We had a lovely time catching up and sharing. Sue is my sage. She always tells me, Marialyce, let it unfold. Everything will be revealed in time. And it is......
That evening, I met my new friend, Claudine at the Knight House. She is a widow and a truly beautiful woman inside and out. She has two great sons who cherish her and she is a delightful woman. I think our friendship will develop into a lasting one.
And so, then I began to prepare for my Thanksgiving Feast. We had 13 here yesterday. Jim cooked an amazing feast for all of us. He is such a good man. He just knows how to do things. He is calm and patient and gets the job done. I was in charge of setting everything up and buying a lot of the items although, Shawn and Lindsay made many trips to Giant for things. We had the four of us, Kevin, Judy, Kelly and Colleen and Trish, Megan, Chris and Allison and my Mother in Law, Sally.
Kelly made delicious desserts for all of us to enjoy. She is a great baker, always trying new things and is always successful. Even, Megan's husband Chris said, that Carmel Apple Cheesecake is delicious. Thank you for sharing your time, talent and treasure with us, Kelly. I love you.
Everyone left our home by 9pm. It is now 9:30 the next morning and we are just about all cleaned up. It is absolutely the MOST WONDERFUL TIME OF THE YEAR!
And now I will let you in on a little secret. Jim is off today. My friend Tim and I were texting, and I suggested that we surprise Jim and Anita, our spouses, and go to Newtown to walk Main Street, tonight and then to Feeney's in Southampton for the beautiful Christmas displays. The Lynch's and Keane's are on equal footing when it comes to LOVE OF CHRISTMAS. Our outing begins at 4 today. I am excited for the adventure. We will grab a bite to eat in a small cafe and maybe have some hot chocolate with whipped cream. Doesn't that sound romantic. We have not been on a double date together since we went to see Elton John when he was in town about a year ago. I am getting excited. I love adventures and surprises!!!!
Next week I begin decorating the house on Green Street in Doylestown for the Doylestown Christmas House Tour.
And so, I have two wishes for you this day. One is that you decide to view others that you work closely with you with the MOST RESPECTFUL INTERPRETATION.
My second wish for you this day is that you can dream up some fun adventures and surprises for those you love. They make you feel like one of Santa's Elves! I gotta go find my Santa Hat!
Ho Ho Ho!!! (smile)
En`Joy,
Marialyce
I have been in a whirlwind. I said to Jim, I can't believe all these days have come and gone. Do you notice that time seems to be elusive? This is my season, my favorite season. The Christmas Season!!! And I love to prepare for the holidays. I prepare early. Well earlier than most of my friends and family. It is because I want to accept every invitation, attend every open house at every garden center in our Bucks County area. Bucks County is just beautiful but at Christmas time, ohhhh. It just shines.
So I have been decorating our home for Christmas and attended Bucks Country Gardens and the Rhodes Garden Open House. I went to Bucks Country Gardens alone, and with my friend Joan to the Rhodes Garden, Robertson's and the Hill Company on our recent outing. This past Sunday, I hosted 16 of my Special Ed graduates in our home for our Third Annual Holiday Gathering. I make the phone call, and invite them and their parents, if they wish to attend. It is OK with me if parents just want to drop the young people off, because the young people know what is expected. The rules are, you must not share that you were invited to my home, because we can not have everyone and choose not include those students who have not graduated yet. Attending the holiday gathering is like reunion time. So they must not talk about me or the gathering on the phone, Internet or any social media site. They understand. Then I ask them to dress as if we are going to the Keswick. They love to get dressed up for this gathering. Thirdly, I say, your parents will probably say, we need to take something to the Keane's. If they do, please say to your parents, Mrs. Keane just wants us to bring ourselves and our parents. She said so.
So Sunday at 4pm, like clock work, they all arrived, with beautiful smiles. OH MY GOODNESS, my heart was filled with Joy. The young people were warm and funny and polite. Tom and Pat and Pat's brother, Michael came and Tom played Christmas songs on the guitar, while Joan led the sing along. At one point, the kids asked me to sing a song, (I can't sing) and so I lip synced while Joan stood behind me and sang. They loved it. So much fun. We went around the table and each person shared something about what they were doing presently. There are 4 birthdays among the group in the month of November. I said to Jim I think I should get a cake. He said, you made all these treats, sandwiches, cheese and crackers and dips. It is enough. I didn't want to go against him, he is so amazing with all that he does to help me facilitate the day. But I kind of wanted a cake. With that, one of my students walked in and has not one but two boxes in his arms. He said, I went to this little bakery, Mrs. Keane, and saw these two cakes and I just wanted to get them. That was a blue moment. How did he know I wanted a cake? I think it was divine intervention. When we sang Happy Birthday and cut the cake, we discovered that we had 35 guests and needed BOTH cakes. God is awesome and so is CD. I am so thankful CD listened to his heart that day.
So after the gathering, we had 10 for dinner. The Zaneski's, Fuller's and Keane's sat down to a crock pot chicken dinner with crab macaroni and cheese and salad. It was a perfect ending to a perfect day.
The next day I met my friend Connie at Good Eats, the diner in Doylestown. Paul and Andrea Markert, Joan's nephew and niece own the establishment and the food is yummy. Connie was kind enough to treat me to my delicious omelet and it was on the promise to pay forward the gift of being treated to her retirement luncheon by her friend, Diane. So now I will pay it forward. Whom shall I choose???? Hmmm
After breakfast, I met up with my friend Susan. Susan was a principal years ago at our high school and now is living her best life. She met up with a friend for lunch in Doylestown but stopped here on her way and we shared some tea, stories and conversation. I KNOW that Susan is a piece of the puzzle in my life. I don't have the full understanding, yet, but I know she is an integral part of my life tapestry.
Susan shared a few concepts with me. And because I believe, Knowledge is Power, and I want to empower others, I will share what she taught me. There is something called The Most Respectful Interpretation. Look it up. Google It. It means that we will not spend our precious time with others judging WHY they are saying or doing things. We will honor them by having the MOST RESPECTFUL INTERPRETATION OF THEIR ACTIONS AND THOUGHTS. We will trust that they are working, sharing, doing for the good of the whole and that their intention is to bring everyone and everything in the moment to its highest intention. I love it!
Susan said Marialyce, you and I are a lot alike. I do agree with her to some degree, but she has her doctorate in education and is so incredibly intelligent and dynamic. Charismatic really. I think I pale in comparison. But it is not about comparison. It is bringing each other along and helping each other to reach our potential, our greatness, our excellence. I said, Susan, you came into my life just when I needed you, all those years ago. I didn't even know I needed you and you were there. She responded, Oh no, Marialyce, it was me who needed you! Wow! I am thankful for Susan. I said, I don't know what it is, but you give me this something.... This something that I need. She said, Marialyce, I "SEE YOU." Not the physical you, but the You, your soul. I validate who you are and the mission that you are on. I said, OH YES YOU DO! I love the AHA moments in my life. This moment actually turned into another Blue Moment. Susan and I will work together again soon. I can just feel it!
Then on Tuesday I had my doctor's appointments. I was tested for the BRCA I and BRCA II genes for breast cancer. Results will be in 2 weeks. I am finding out if this breast cancer was a genetic predisposition or just a freak of nature. There is no history of women having breast cancer on either side of my family, however, I recollect that my Uncle Bill on my father's side was diagnosed with breast cancer when he was about 65, thirty five years ago. I will be pleased to know if I have the gene or not, so I know if Shawn and Lindsay need to be tested. Please God, don't let me pass on something this grave to my cherubs. I don't want them to have to bear this cross. I will do anything to keep them out of harm's way. Please God.
Then I saw Beth DuPree my surgeon. I love her. She gave me a good report, although I must say that I am lacking energy and my back bothers me. I don't know what it is, but am not fearful of any cancer returning. I am concerned about this woman I work with, Holly. I am keeping her close to my heart and in my continuous thoughts and prayers. Please pray for Holly.
Later on Tuesday, I met my friend, Sue for lunch at the Olive Garden. It is our place to go. We had a lovely time catching up and sharing. Sue is my sage. She always tells me, Marialyce, let it unfold. Everything will be revealed in time. And it is......
That evening, I met my new friend, Claudine at the Knight House. She is a widow and a truly beautiful woman inside and out. She has two great sons who cherish her and she is a delightful woman. I think our friendship will develop into a lasting one.
And so, then I began to prepare for my Thanksgiving Feast. We had 13 here yesterday. Jim cooked an amazing feast for all of us. He is such a good man. He just knows how to do things. He is calm and patient and gets the job done. I was in charge of setting everything up and buying a lot of the items although, Shawn and Lindsay made many trips to Giant for things. We had the four of us, Kevin, Judy, Kelly and Colleen and Trish, Megan, Chris and Allison and my Mother in Law, Sally.
Kelly made delicious desserts for all of us to enjoy. She is a great baker, always trying new things and is always successful. Even, Megan's husband Chris said, that Carmel Apple Cheesecake is delicious. Thank you for sharing your time, talent and treasure with us, Kelly. I love you.
Everyone left our home by 9pm. It is now 9:30 the next morning and we are just about all cleaned up. It is absolutely the MOST WONDERFUL TIME OF THE YEAR!
And now I will let you in on a little secret. Jim is off today. My friend Tim and I were texting, and I suggested that we surprise Jim and Anita, our spouses, and go to Newtown to walk Main Street, tonight and then to Feeney's in Southampton for the beautiful Christmas displays. The Lynch's and Keane's are on equal footing when it comes to LOVE OF CHRISTMAS. Our outing begins at 4 today. I am excited for the adventure. We will grab a bite to eat in a small cafe and maybe have some hot chocolate with whipped cream. Doesn't that sound romantic. We have not been on a double date together since we went to see Elton John when he was in town about a year ago. I am getting excited. I love adventures and surprises!!!!
Next week I begin decorating the house on Green Street in Doylestown for the Doylestown Christmas House Tour.
And so, I have two wishes for you this day. One is that you decide to view others that you work closely with you with the MOST RESPECTFUL INTERPRETATION.
My second wish for you this day is that you can dream up some fun adventures and surprises for those you love. They make you feel like one of Santa's Elves! I gotta go find my Santa Hat!
Ho Ho Ho!!! (smile)
En`Joy,
Marialyce
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
Good Evening My Dear Friends,
I had a Synchronistic Moment today. It was a blue moment, a God wink. A few weeks ago, I went to Bon Ton to purchase my lip liner. Lancome` makes a beautiful lip liner pencil. However, they didn't have my color. "Mars" I purchased two of the same lip liner in 'Raisinberry" and Debbie the Lancome` saleswoman said call us and when we get "Mars" in, you can come in and exchange the Raisinberry for the Mars! I like Debbie. She is good at what she does.
Anyway, I have called a few times and today was my lucky day. I went to Bon Ton after school and exchanged my lip liner. On the way out the door, a young woman was coming in. She looked so cute. She was wearing a Mount St. Joseph Academy uniform. I said, " Hi, do you go to the Mount?" She said, "Yes I do!" I said, Hello, I am Mrs. Keane. My daughters graduated from the Mount in 2004 and 2006. I love the Mount." She said, I am Katie, and I am a sophomore. We talked about Sister Kathleen, and Sister Joanie. She told me she loved going to school there. My heart warmed. I said, please tell your parents that you are a lovely young woman and don't forget to thank them for sending you there. It is an excellent school. Please tell the Sisters that Marialyce Keane said hello and that I was asking for them. She said she would do just that. She was adorable.
Then I said, by the way, what is your last name. She said, "I'm Katie Mars. Mars...... just like the planet. " I could not believe it. I asked her if she knew what a Synchronistic Moment was. She replied, no. I said well it is meaningful coincidence, or I call them God winks. I said, I have been trying to get this lip pencil for weeks and it just came in so I ran over to pick it up. I showed her the box and she looked at the name of the color. She said, wow....that is amazing. I said, I think so too....It is my way of knowing that I am in alignment with my true calling in life, my highest intention. I get such a thrill when they happen to me. Katie said, Mrs. Keane it was very nice to meet you. So sweet!
And so, my wish for you this evening, is, you guessed it.... That you experience your own God wink, or Synchronistic Moment. I hope it makes you feel all warm and wonderful inside, just like I feel right now!
En` Joy,
Marialyce
I had a Synchronistic Moment today. It was a blue moment, a God wink. A few weeks ago, I went to Bon Ton to purchase my lip liner. Lancome` makes a beautiful lip liner pencil. However, they didn't have my color. "Mars" I purchased two of the same lip liner in 'Raisinberry" and Debbie the Lancome` saleswoman said call us and when we get "Mars" in, you can come in and exchange the Raisinberry for the Mars! I like Debbie. She is good at what she does.
Anyway, I have called a few times and today was my lucky day. I went to Bon Ton after school and exchanged my lip liner. On the way out the door, a young woman was coming in. She looked so cute. She was wearing a Mount St. Joseph Academy uniform. I said, " Hi, do you go to the Mount?" She said, "Yes I do!" I said, Hello, I am Mrs. Keane. My daughters graduated from the Mount in 2004 and 2006. I love the Mount." She said, I am Katie, and I am a sophomore. We talked about Sister Kathleen, and Sister Joanie. She told me she loved going to school there. My heart warmed. I said, please tell your parents that you are a lovely young woman and don't forget to thank them for sending you there. It is an excellent school. Please tell the Sisters that Marialyce Keane said hello and that I was asking for them. She said she would do just that. She was adorable.
Then I said, by the way, what is your last name. She said, "I'm Katie Mars. Mars...... just like the planet. " I could not believe it. I asked her if she knew what a Synchronistic Moment was. She replied, no. I said well it is meaningful coincidence, or I call them God winks. I said, I have been trying to get this lip pencil for weeks and it just came in so I ran over to pick it up. I showed her the box and she looked at the name of the color. She said, wow....that is amazing. I said, I think so too....It is my way of knowing that I am in alignment with my true calling in life, my highest intention. I get such a thrill when they happen to me. Katie said, Mrs. Keane it was very nice to meet you. So sweet!
And so, my wish for you this evening, is, you guessed it.... That you experience your own God wink, or Synchronistic Moment. I hope it makes you feel all warm and wonderful inside, just like I feel right now!
En` Joy,
Marialyce
Sunday, November 11, 2012
Good Evening Friends,
Busy weekend! Yesterday I had such a fun day. My friend, Joan and I shared our fourth annual day of togetherness. We share the same birthday and instead of purchasing gifts for each other, we spend quality time (and quantity time) with each other at the same time every year. We had so much fun. We start out with breakfast at 'Good Eats' a great diner in Doylestown. It is always packed, but this time we ate at the counter and were seated immediately! Breakfast was out of this world. I had a spinach, feta and goat cheese omelet and Joan had eggs benedict. We shared a corn meal pancake which I highly recommend. My mouth is watering as I write this! Soooo good.
Then we headed up to Chestnut Hill for a day of walking and talking and shopping. It was a gorgeous day, the weather was perfect. Although we did not discuss this, I think our favorite store in Chestnut Hill is the Hill Company. Beautiful things for your home and garden. They were decorating for Christmas and just like last year, I felt like I was in Santa's workshop. Linda, the owner was in the throws of decorating a tree and Kim her right hand woman was so helpful to Joan and me. We made our purchases and headed off to the other Hill and Company Store in Worcester. Linda decorated that store already and it was magnificent. She has the magic touch for decorating. Joan and I also went to Home Goods where we found items that we could use to decorate at a more cost effective price point. We had so much fun sharing, laughing and learning. Later we met our husbands for dinner at the Publick House in Wycombe, PA. We all enjoyed our meals and thought the service was excellent. It was such a great day! So for Joan and I it was a 9AM to 9PM day of bliss. I don't know how I got so lucky as to have Joan as my dear and treasured friend. I am very blessed.
When I think about all my friends..... I am truly humbled that I get to be among such wonderful, caring, talented....truly magnificent people. I know I am blessed. Thank you, God, for the gift of my friends and family.
On another quick note, I don't think we will be getting Riley. One of the girls in the family that owns her does not want to part with this little darling. I don't think that she will be coming to visit us this Thanksgiving. Perhaps there is a lesson to be learned in this experience, somewhere. I will have to pray about it.
And so, my wish for you today, is that you think about your dear friends and make a date to share time together. Those friends are the jewels in your life. You deserve to shine brightly among them.
En`Joy,
Marialyce
Busy weekend! Yesterday I had such a fun day. My friend, Joan and I shared our fourth annual day of togetherness. We share the same birthday and instead of purchasing gifts for each other, we spend quality time (and quantity time) with each other at the same time every year. We had so much fun. We start out with breakfast at 'Good Eats' a great diner in Doylestown. It is always packed, but this time we ate at the counter and were seated immediately! Breakfast was out of this world. I had a spinach, feta and goat cheese omelet and Joan had eggs benedict. We shared a corn meal pancake which I highly recommend. My mouth is watering as I write this! Soooo good.
Then we headed up to Chestnut Hill for a day of walking and talking and shopping. It was a gorgeous day, the weather was perfect. Although we did not discuss this, I think our favorite store in Chestnut Hill is the Hill Company. Beautiful things for your home and garden. They were decorating for Christmas and just like last year, I felt like I was in Santa's workshop. Linda, the owner was in the throws of decorating a tree and Kim her right hand woman was so helpful to Joan and me. We made our purchases and headed off to the other Hill and Company Store in Worcester. Linda decorated that store already and it was magnificent. She has the magic touch for decorating. Joan and I also went to Home Goods where we found items that we could use to decorate at a more cost effective price point. We had so much fun sharing, laughing and learning. Later we met our husbands for dinner at the Publick House in Wycombe, PA. We all enjoyed our meals and thought the service was excellent. It was such a great day! So for Joan and I it was a 9AM to 9PM day of bliss. I don't know how I got so lucky as to have Joan as my dear and treasured friend. I am very blessed.
When I think about all my friends..... I am truly humbled that I get to be among such wonderful, caring, talented....truly magnificent people. I know I am blessed. Thank you, God, for the gift of my friends and family.
On another quick note, I don't think we will be getting Riley. One of the girls in the family that owns her does not want to part with this little darling. I don't think that she will be coming to visit us this Thanksgiving. Perhaps there is a lesson to be learned in this experience, somewhere. I will have to pray about it.
And so, my wish for you today, is that you think about your dear friends and make a date to share time together. Those friends are the jewels in your life. You deserve to shine brightly among them.
En`Joy,
Marialyce
Thursday, November 8, 2012
Hello Friends,
Today was a great day! I had a Council meeting of all the leaders of the club at school. We asked the students to write an essay telling us what the club means to them, what talents they could bring to the club as a whole and why they want to be a leader of the club. We have 11 members who were inducted into the club and all were eligible to write an essay. Seven wrote an essay and let me tell you, they were inspiring, and from the heart. At the meeting today they were all excited, collaborative, and very generous with their talents, skills and creativity. They were leaders, all were expressive. I was amazed and proud at how much they want this! I call them my Sensational Seven!
The club has many pledges, those who are seeing if this club fits within the framework of their lives. There are 8 more students, who continue to come to meetings and see what 'it' is all about! Keep `em coming!!!! At this point in time there are approximately 20 people in the club!
I received this quotation in an email today:
"Be happy, noble heart, be blessed for all the good thou hast done
and wilt do hereafter, and let my gratitude remain in obscurity
like your good deeds." ~ Alexandre Dumas, The Count of Monte Cristo
I look upon this quote as a God wink. I am very happy! I know that this club is necessary in the lives of young people. Offering them an option to choose to live an amazing, beautiful, harmonious life of greatness and excellence as opposed to succumbing to the pitfalls that will present themselves in their lives is an opportunity for them to soar! These young people were empowered today! Their energy was palpable.
And so, my wish for you this evening is that you have an opportunity to help another human being to see that they are worthy of fulfilling their highest potential and then help them to achieve it!
En` Joy,
Marialyce
Today was a great day! I had a Council meeting of all the leaders of the club at school. We asked the students to write an essay telling us what the club means to them, what talents they could bring to the club as a whole and why they want to be a leader of the club. We have 11 members who were inducted into the club and all were eligible to write an essay. Seven wrote an essay and let me tell you, they were inspiring, and from the heart. At the meeting today they were all excited, collaborative, and very generous with their talents, skills and creativity. They were leaders, all were expressive. I was amazed and proud at how much they want this! I call them my Sensational Seven!
The club has many pledges, those who are seeing if this club fits within the framework of their lives. There are 8 more students, who continue to come to meetings and see what 'it' is all about! Keep `em coming!!!! At this point in time there are approximately 20 people in the club!
I received this quotation in an email today:
"Be happy, noble heart, be blessed for all the good thou hast done
and wilt do hereafter, and let my gratitude remain in obscurity
like your good deeds." ~ Alexandre Dumas, The Count of Monte Cristo
I look upon this quote as a God wink. I am very happy! I know that this club is necessary in the lives of young people. Offering them an option to choose to live an amazing, beautiful, harmonious life of greatness and excellence as opposed to succumbing to the pitfalls that will present themselves in their lives is an opportunity for them to soar! These young people were empowered today! Their energy was palpable.
And so, my wish for you this evening is that you have an opportunity to help another human being to see that they are worthy of fulfilling their highest potential and then help them to achieve it!
En` Joy,
Marialyce
Tuesday, November 6, 2012
Good Evening Everyone,
I received the most wonderful surprise yesterday! When I returned to school after a weeks absence, due to Hurricane Sandy, there was a wooden plaque on my desk. It moved me to tears. Who would be so generous as to create this gift for me. Who knew how much this would mean to me?
I contacted my counterpart advisor at the 'other' school. I said, Dave, did you have a sign made for me? Did You make this sign for me? He said, Marialyce, I have no idea what you are referring to. I did not give you a sign. Honestly, I did not. Hmmm.. If not him then who? I asked another person and have decided that I do not want to know who gave me this treasured gift. This person is my Santa Claus. I felt like a child on Christmas morning when I saw this gift. I LOVE THIS GIFT!
I took the sign up to Dave yesterday, because he was addressing the faculty about the club. This would be the first time that the club has been spoken about publicly. I wanted to show my support. When I showed Dave the sign he said, Wow, Marialyce, I wish I was the person who gave that to you. Then later he said, I want one too.... Do you know Santa too, Marialyce? A reference to the book, The Tipping Point, by Malcolm Gladwell. I have been referred to as the Connector, one of the three personalities listed in the book, needed to have a successful business. (The other two are the Maven and the Salesman)
Little does Dave know... (I know he was making a joke,) but my wheels are already in motion. Oh my goodness, that would be one of the most exciting presents that I could give this Christmas.
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I want to show you the sign, and the oath that we take at every meeting. It humbles me to be a member and an advisor of this club.
And so, my wish for you this evening, is that you have a wonderful surprise awaiting you. I hope someone makes you feel blessed, like a child on Christmas Morning.
En`Joy,
Marialyce
I received the most wonderful surprise yesterday! When I returned to school after a weeks absence, due to Hurricane Sandy, there was a wooden plaque on my desk. It moved me to tears. Who would be so generous as to create this gift for me. Who knew how much this would mean to me?
I contacted my counterpart advisor at the 'other' school. I said, Dave, did you have a sign made for me? Did You make this sign for me? He said, Marialyce, I have no idea what you are referring to. I did not give you a sign. Honestly, I did not. Hmmm.. If not him then who? I asked another person and have decided that I do not want to know who gave me this treasured gift. This person is my Santa Claus. I felt like a child on Christmas morning when I saw this gift. I LOVE THIS GIFT!
I took the sign up to Dave yesterday, because he was addressing the faculty about the club. This would be the first time that the club has been spoken about publicly. I wanted to show my support. When I showed Dave the sign he said, Wow, Marialyce, I wish I was the person who gave that to you. Then later he said, I want one too.... Do you know Santa too, Marialyce? A reference to the book, The Tipping Point, by Malcolm Gladwell. I have been referred to as the Connector, one of the three personalities listed in the book, needed to have a successful business. (The other two are the Maven and the Salesman)
Little does Dave know... (I know he was making a joke,) but my wheels are already in motion. Oh my goodness, that would be one of the most exciting presents that I could give this Christmas.
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And so, my wish for you this evening, is that you have a wonderful surprise awaiting you. I hope someone makes you feel blessed, like a child on Christmas Morning.
En`Joy,
Marialyce
Sunday, November 4, 2012
Good Evening My Dear Friends,
Today was the MOM (Mary our Mother) Heart of the Home day of renewal for all women, 18 and older, held at Archbishop Wood High School. It was a beautiful day of reflection on all the blessings that have been bestowed upon us. I was the afternoon speaker. I was delighted to speak on the gift of faith and how it has manifested in my life. I was not nervous about speaking, I actually love it! I enjoy the feeling of having that 'something,' ( perhaps it is the Holy Spirit,) take over and I become the messenger. It is not about the ego, it is about feeling so divinely inspired that I am merely a vessel for God. I could do this everyday for the rest of my life. It is exhausting afterward. I could take a nap. But it is exhilarating and makes me feel joy within my heart.
There were 61 women present today. One woman came up to me afterward and said, you spoke directly to me. I feel as though that message was for me. She thanked me for speaking. I am thankful that I am able to be of use in my life. I figured that if 10 per cent of the women there said something to me that was positive, then I would know, confidently, that I should continue. I must say that after six women expressed gratitude or some positive affirmation, I stopped counting and just said, God, I am soooo thankful that I get to do YOUR will. I love being chosen to be Your Messenger to others. I would be a fool for YOU GOD!
I got to spend some time with my friends, Annmarie and Cathy. Deanna and Emma came to share the afternoon with us. Aunt Dee was there in spirit. We all said the Rosary, shared Mass, Reconciliation and Adoration, and had a lovely meal together. It was a memorable day.
We return to school tomorrow. I am really excited to see my students again. I miss them and their smiles. The Club that 14 of us were inducted into Friday a week ago, will be in full gear tomorrow. All members will be wearing their black bands, reminders to us, to choose to live to our highest intention. To date I have received three application essays for Council consideration and one more that will be received shortly. I can tell you I want all 4 of these exceptional young people on Council. All of the members of our club are leaders, however, they are all involved in so many other activities, work, and sports that they have limited availability and time to devote to Council. They all make me very proud. They are outstanding people choosing to live an amazing and beautiful life of excellence.
And so, my wish for you today is that you, too, are living the life you are meant to lead. I wish that you recognize that you are living your highest intention. If you don't think you are, then I recommend sitting quietly, by yourself, and asking for guidance. Ask God to tell you exactly what He wants of you in your life. I can tell you that you will get an answer. It may come to you in an odd way, it may reveal itself to you in a very blatant manner or it may be obscure. I can tell you for sure, that you will know. There will be no mistaking it. And when you know, it will be the most wonderful, empowering experience. Have Faith!
En`Joy,
Marialyce
Today was the MOM (Mary our Mother) Heart of the Home day of renewal for all women, 18 and older, held at Archbishop Wood High School. It was a beautiful day of reflection on all the blessings that have been bestowed upon us. I was the afternoon speaker. I was delighted to speak on the gift of faith and how it has manifested in my life. I was not nervous about speaking, I actually love it! I enjoy the feeling of having that 'something,' ( perhaps it is the Holy Spirit,) take over and I become the messenger. It is not about the ego, it is about feeling so divinely inspired that I am merely a vessel for God. I could do this everyday for the rest of my life. It is exhausting afterward. I could take a nap. But it is exhilarating and makes me feel joy within my heart.
There were 61 women present today. One woman came up to me afterward and said, you spoke directly to me. I feel as though that message was for me. She thanked me for speaking. I am thankful that I am able to be of use in my life. I figured that if 10 per cent of the women there said something to me that was positive, then I would know, confidently, that I should continue. I must say that after six women expressed gratitude or some positive affirmation, I stopped counting and just said, God, I am soooo thankful that I get to do YOUR will. I love being chosen to be Your Messenger to others. I would be a fool for YOU GOD!
I got to spend some time with my friends, Annmarie and Cathy. Deanna and Emma came to share the afternoon with us. Aunt Dee was there in spirit. We all said the Rosary, shared Mass, Reconciliation and Adoration, and had a lovely meal together. It was a memorable day.
We return to school tomorrow. I am really excited to see my students again. I miss them and their smiles. The Club that 14 of us were inducted into Friday a week ago, will be in full gear tomorrow. All members will be wearing their black bands, reminders to us, to choose to live to our highest intention. To date I have received three application essays for Council consideration and one more that will be received shortly. I can tell you I want all 4 of these exceptional young people on Council. All of the members of our club are leaders, however, they are all involved in so many other activities, work, and sports that they have limited availability and time to devote to Council. They all make me very proud. They are outstanding people choosing to live an amazing and beautiful life of excellence.
And so, my wish for you today is that you, too, are living the life you are meant to lead. I wish that you recognize that you are living your highest intention. If you don't think you are, then I recommend sitting quietly, by yourself, and asking for guidance. Ask God to tell you exactly what He wants of you in your life. I can tell you that you will get an answer. It may come to you in an odd way, it may reveal itself to you in a very blatant manner or it may be obscure. I can tell you for sure, that you will know. There will be no mistaking it. And when you know, it will be the most wonderful, empowering experience. Have Faith!
En`Joy,
Marialyce
Thursday, November 1, 2012
Good Afternoon Everyone,
Oh Happy Day,
We have borne the wrath of Sandy, a very intrusive, unwelcome visitor, and our power has been restored through the night. We have been without power for days. I learned from this experience that I am NOT a camper girl. I can not even express how delighted I am to be a warm, soft, smooth, clean, fresh smelling woman once again. Yeah! Thank you, God and PECO for giving us POWER!
Over the course of the last several days, we have not had school. Our family was together, all of us, plus Shawn's friend, Lauren for two days, which was delightful! We played games, cooked together, and even decorated for Christmas! YES WE DID! Our home looks festive, is warm and cozy now and we are ready, prepared to experience the most wonderful time of the year. I love Christmas. We will be hosting 14 for Thanksgiving this year and we will have our Special Ed graduates for our Third Annual Holiday Gathering! So I am really excited! And we may be expecting Riley too. That would be quite special.
During this major inconvenience, we took a shower and went to our friend's home,
The Lynch Family, to use their electricity to dry our hair. We went in separate cars. When we returned home, Lindsay and Shawn were on the driveway looking at us. They asked Jim, how they were going to get in the house. Our home is like Fort Knox these days, nobody can get in, since the burglary, between the locks and the alarm. The back door is locked tight. The front door, we never got keys made, because we always used the garage door. And now, because of the power outage, when I left the house, I tripped the automatic opener, but negligently closed the door and it locked. What a nightmare. NO LIGHT, NO POWER. We went to our angels next door, the J's and fortunately, Tim, Mary and Erin helped us with a ladder. Shawn climbed up the back of the house and was able, after much ado, to get in to our home through our bathroom window. Jim was calling to Shawn, there is water in the tub, be careful you don't fall in! What a fiasco. Lindsay was yelling to Shawn to be careful and all we heard back were are names in annoyance. Shawn was a woman on a mission. SHAWN IS OUR HERO! She is truly unbelievable. She is training for a 5K run this weekend and I think she is in tip top shape. God Bless Shawn!
At this precise moment, I am waiting to hear if we will have school tomorrow. It seems to me that it would be fiscally irresponsible for the district to open the school for one day and heat all the buildings to the tune of thousands of dollars. I also just learned that our school still does not have power. When I spoke to my friend, L, at school, she mentioned that she read my blog! Wow, I didn't think anyone was reading, I have not heard from anyone in a long time. I decided a long time ago, that my reason for writing this blog was for my girls. I know that they don't want to be bothered with my thoughts on things. But I think they may want to know someday. I wish that I could have one more conversation with my mother. Get my Mom's thoughts on different issues. I lost my Mom 20 years ago, and my Dad 10 years ago. I think by blogging, that perhaps if they would like my opinion on something after I am no longer living, then I will still be providing help. They also get to read or listen to me 'talk' on their time, and I understand that. So Thank YOU, L, for encouraging me to continue blogging, you gave me hope today.
I made two phone calls today, one to Caremark, our prescription company and one to Aetna our medical insurance company. For over a year I have been trying to locate Roland in the Customer Service Department of one of these companies. Between last August 4 and August 24, I went to Target to buy robes that zipped up the front. I needed to be comfortable after my mastectomies and thought these would be a wise purchase. I sat in the Target parking lot in my car having a nervous breakdown talking to Roland. I wanted to find out how much money this surgery was going to cost my family and how much my Tamoxifen was going to cost us on a monthly basis. I have to take this drug for 5 years post surgery.
When I called the two companies, they see that I have been calling ( today was the third time) to find Roland. I informed them why I wanted to reconnect with him. I was sobbing on the phone to Roland telling him about my life August a year ago. I said I had a magnificent life. All my dreams came true. I was blessed with great parents, family and friends. I have a great husband of almost 30 years and two healthy, adult, educated daughters. What more could a woman ask for. There is no history of Breast Cancer in my family and NOW I WILL LEAVE A LEGACY OF BREAST CANCER FOR MY GIRLS. I was devastated. I tried to live a good, healthy life. This was now my journey.
It has been 15 months and I want to thank Roland personally for his kind words. They lifted me up in my darkness. This is what he said, "You are a blessed woman. I would like you to consider this.... Your legacy for your daughters will not be that you had breast cancer, but that you were strong enough to beat it. He said, perhaps all the woman that came before you in your family would not have been strong enough to endure this illness." OH HOW HE EMPOWERED ME. Roland was my angel. I have tried to find him and no one seems to be able to do so. I have gone to supervisors and asked for help. I even said if he was unkind to me you would have found him, but you can't find him if he was wonderful to me? I have considered that he was just an angel sent by God to talk me off the proverbial cliff. Whatever, the outcome, I love you Roland. You are my angel. I recognize you as such, and I am grateful.
On another note, I will be praying for Denise, my friend L's sister who just had breast cancer surgery. It is such a cruel and inhumane disease. My prayer is that they got her cancer and that she will live a full and extraordinary life.
On Sunday, I give my talk on Faith at Archbishop Wood High School. I am excited to do so. My friend Annemarie, sent me the most beautiful card, encouraging me and lifting me up. She reminded me of Roland and I think I have to mention him in my talk on Sunday. Even today, L said that was a good story, when I shared about Roland. Who knows, perhaps we will find him, after all this time.
I also spoke to our friends, The Lynch's, and their beach home is fine. Our friends The Biglin's had water in their first floor, but when I spoke to Karen, she was very much on it, and had a positive attitude. Which confirms my thought that you can not control what happens to you in life, but you can control how you respond to the adverse situations.
And so, my wish for you tonight is that you have power in your home, that you give all your power to God, and that you are empowered to do HIS WILL!
En` Joy,
Marialyce
Oh Happy Day,
We have borne the wrath of Sandy, a very intrusive, unwelcome visitor, and our power has been restored through the night. We have been without power for days. I learned from this experience that I am NOT a camper girl. I can not even express how delighted I am to be a warm, soft, smooth, clean, fresh smelling woman once again. Yeah! Thank you, God and PECO for giving us POWER!
Over the course of the last several days, we have not had school. Our family was together, all of us, plus Shawn's friend, Lauren for two days, which was delightful! We played games, cooked together, and even decorated for Christmas! YES WE DID! Our home looks festive, is warm and cozy now and we are ready, prepared to experience the most wonderful time of the year. I love Christmas. We will be hosting 14 for Thanksgiving this year and we will have our Special Ed graduates for our Third Annual Holiday Gathering! So I am really excited! And we may be expecting Riley too. That would be quite special.
During this major inconvenience, we took a shower and went to our friend's home,
The Lynch Family, to use their electricity to dry our hair. We went in separate cars. When we returned home, Lindsay and Shawn were on the driveway looking at us. They asked Jim, how they were going to get in the house. Our home is like Fort Knox these days, nobody can get in, since the burglary, between the locks and the alarm. The back door is locked tight. The front door, we never got keys made, because we always used the garage door. And now, because of the power outage, when I left the house, I tripped the automatic opener, but negligently closed the door and it locked. What a nightmare. NO LIGHT, NO POWER. We went to our angels next door, the J's and fortunately, Tim, Mary and Erin helped us with a ladder. Shawn climbed up the back of the house and was able, after much ado, to get in to our home through our bathroom window. Jim was calling to Shawn, there is water in the tub, be careful you don't fall in! What a fiasco. Lindsay was yelling to Shawn to be careful and all we heard back were are names in annoyance. Shawn was a woman on a mission. SHAWN IS OUR HERO! She is truly unbelievable. She is training for a 5K run this weekend and I think she is in tip top shape. God Bless Shawn!
At this precise moment, I am waiting to hear if we will have school tomorrow. It seems to me that it would be fiscally irresponsible for the district to open the school for one day and heat all the buildings to the tune of thousands of dollars. I also just learned that our school still does not have power. When I spoke to my friend, L, at school, she mentioned that she read my blog! Wow, I didn't think anyone was reading, I have not heard from anyone in a long time. I decided a long time ago, that my reason for writing this blog was for my girls. I know that they don't want to be bothered with my thoughts on things. But I think they may want to know someday. I wish that I could have one more conversation with my mother. Get my Mom's thoughts on different issues. I lost my Mom 20 years ago, and my Dad 10 years ago. I think by blogging, that perhaps if they would like my opinion on something after I am no longer living, then I will still be providing help. They also get to read or listen to me 'talk' on their time, and I understand that. So Thank YOU, L, for encouraging me to continue blogging, you gave me hope today.
I made two phone calls today, one to Caremark, our prescription company and one to Aetna our medical insurance company. For over a year I have been trying to locate Roland in the Customer Service Department of one of these companies. Between last August 4 and August 24, I went to Target to buy robes that zipped up the front. I needed to be comfortable after my mastectomies and thought these would be a wise purchase. I sat in the Target parking lot in my car having a nervous breakdown talking to Roland. I wanted to find out how much money this surgery was going to cost my family and how much my Tamoxifen was going to cost us on a monthly basis. I have to take this drug for 5 years post surgery.
When I called the two companies, they see that I have been calling ( today was the third time) to find Roland. I informed them why I wanted to reconnect with him. I was sobbing on the phone to Roland telling him about my life August a year ago. I said I had a magnificent life. All my dreams came true. I was blessed with great parents, family and friends. I have a great husband of almost 30 years and two healthy, adult, educated daughters. What more could a woman ask for. There is no history of Breast Cancer in my family and NOW I WILL LEAVE A LEGACY OF BREAST CANCER FOR MY GIRLS. I was devastated. I tried to live a good, healthy life. This was now my journey.
It has been 15 months and I want to thank Roland personally for his kind words. They lifted me up in my darkness. This is what he said, "You are a blessed woman. I would like you to consider this.... Your legacy for your daughters will not be that you had breast cancer, but that you were strong enough to beat it. He said, perhaps all the woman that came before you in your family would not have been strong enough to endure this illness." OH HOW HE EMPOWERED ME. Roland was my angel. I have tried to find him and no one seems to be able to do so. I have gone to supervisors and asked for help. I even said if he was unkind to me you would have found him, but you can't find him if he was wonderful to me? I have considered that he was just an angel sent by God to talk me off the proverbial cliff. Whatever, the outcome, I love you Roland. You are my angel. I recognize you as such, and I am grateful.
On another note, I will be praying for Denise, my friend L's sister who just had breast cancer surgery. It is such a cruel and inhumane disease. My prayer is that they got her cancer and that she will live a full and extraordinary life.
On Sunday, I give my talk on Faith at Archbishop Wood High School. I am excited to do so. My friend Annemarie, sent me the most beautiful card, encouraging me and lifting me up. She reminded me of Roland and I think I have to mention him in my talk on Sunday. Even today, L said that was a good story, when I shared about Roland. Who knows, perhaps we will find him, after all this time.
I also spoke to our friends, The Lynch's, and their beach home is fine. Our friends The Biglin's had water in their first floor, but when I spoke to Karen, she was very much on it, and had a positive attitude. Which confirms my thought that you can not control what happens to you in life, but you can control how you respond to the adverse situations.
And so, my wish for you tonight is that you have power in your home, that you give all your power to God, and that you are empowered to do HIS WILL!
En` Joy,
Marialyce
Sunday, October 28, 2012
Good Afternoon,
We are all preparing for the same guest to arrive. Sandy. Sandy is an unwelcome guest, yet we are all buying food, supplies and working around our homes in an effort to ensure that we are all PREPARED for the great arrival. It is imminent. Our school district is closed tomorrow and Tuesday. Lindsay's office is closed in NYC, Shawn's school, Villanova is closed and Jim's office just called and they will all be working from home tomorrow. Wow, Sandy is IMPORTANT.
I pray that all my loved ones, friends and family are safe throughout this visit.
Friday evening was wonderful. We were all Inducted into the club at our sister school.
Thirty two of us pledged to live a life of excellence and live a beautiful amazing life. We will all be wearing black wristbands as a reminder of our commitment. It is an extraordinary movement. I am so proud to be the advisor of this club, so proud of all of our members.
Yesterday, one of the students from the sister school invited all of us to her fall festival. She lives on an 18 acre farm with horses, sheep, chickens, dogs, cats, and guinea hens. There is a pool, a huge barn and a home that was built in the 1800's. It is a masterpiece. This family was warm and welcoming and all the members of this club from both schools got along beautifully. While we were there one of the dogs came out with the lady of the house. She maintains the 18 acre farm by herself. I was in awe of her.
This little dog came out to greet all of us. He was a Chihuahua Brittany mix and was adorable. They told me he was a rescue dog. He is well behaved and rings the bell that hangs on the doorknob to signal his need to go outside. He had a gentle temperament, and I fell in love with him. Little Riley, was adorable. I asked if they would ever consider allowing him to be adopted by another family and the lady of the house said yes. OMG. I can not stop thinking about Reilly. I showed the picture to Jim, Shawn and Lindsay and everyone wants to meet him. I am considering, a trial visit, Thanksgiving week. I am off from school and will have the time to devote to him. He is about 2 years old. So we may be having an addition to our family.
And so, my wish for you this evening is that Sandy doesn't visit you. If you are visited, I hope Sandy's visit exhibits no cause for concern. I also wish you the thrill that we are all experiencing here in our home with the potential arrival of Reilly.
En `Joy,
Marialyce
We are all preparing for the same guest to arrive. Sandy. Sandy is an unwelcome guest, yet we are all buying food, supplies and working around our homes in an effort to ensure that we are all PREPARED for the great arrival. It is imminent. Our school district is closed tomorrow and Tuesday. Lindsay's office is closed in NYC, Shawn's school, Villanova is closed and Jim's office just called and they will all be working from home tomorrow. Wow, Sandy is IMPORTANT.
I pray that all my loved ones, friends and family are safe throughout this visit.
Friday evening was wonderful. We were all Inducted into the club at our sister school.
Thirty two of us pledged to live a life of excellence and live a beautiful amazing life. We will all be wearing black wristbands as a reminder of our commitment. It is an extraordinary movement. I am so proud to be the advisor of this club, so proud of all of our members.
Yesterday, one of the students from the sister school invited all of us to her fall festival. She lives on an 18 acre farm with horses, sheep, chickens, dogs, cats, and guinea hens. There is a pool, a huge barn and a home that was built in the 1800's. It is a masterpiece. This family was warm and welcoming and all the members of this club from both schools got along beautifully. While we were there one of the dogs came out with the lady of the house. She maintains the 18 acre farm by herself. I was in awe of her.
This little dog came out to greet all of us. He was a Chihuahua Brittany mix and was adorable. They told me he was a rescue dog. He is well behaved and rings the bell that hangs on the doorknob to signal his need to go outside. He had a gentle temperament, and I fell in love with him. Little Riley, was adorable. I asked if they would ever consider allowing him to be adopted by another family and the lady of the house said yes. OMG. I can not stop thinking about Reilly. I showed the picture to Jim, Shawn and Lindsay and everyone wants to meet him. I am considering, a trial visit, Thanksgiving week. I am off from school and will have the time to devote to him. He is about 2 years old. So we may be having an addition to our family.
And so, my wish for you this evening is that Sandy doesn't visit you. If you are visited, I hope Sandy's visit exhibits no cause for concern. I also wish you the thrill that we are all experiencing here in our home with the potential arrival of Reilly.
En `Joy,
Marialyce
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
Good Evening Dear Friend,
Last March 28, 2012, our family was burglarized in the night while we slept. We were all home. Jim and I heard what we thought was Shawn, going to her car because she forgot something, after we had gone to bed. There was no cause for alarm. We were not fearful or worried. Later we learned that someone broke in and took many things.
Yesterday was the preliminary hearing for this young woman. She is 28 years old and has a 2 year old son. She is a graduate of PSU and is a drug addict. We were in court yesterday and Shawn and I had to testify. The young woman's father, fed up with his daughter, testified against her. I understand the grandparents have custody of her baby. The Mom looks so haggard, worn out from all the troubles of her daughter. There is no light in her eyes. I looked into them as we awaited the final results of the hearing. I was advised not to go over and speak to her. I wanted to, though.
We learned that it was not proven that she was the person in our home. The fact that she had this computer in her possession when she was arrested and other belongings of ours, was only circumstantial evidence. But the DA said, this is just the beginning. She will go on trial in December or January for a Felony II charge, receiving stolen property and other charges. I would like this woman to learn a lesson. I keep asking Jesus, to guide me to what HE wants of me in this situation.
Prior to going to court I received this email message from Paul B. Taubman.....Your Gratitude Burst...
"Everything will be all right in the end, so if it not all right, then it is not the end."
Funny, but when I read this yesterday, I thought, we are not going to win this round. And we didn't. However, I do believe that it will be all right in the end. And it is not the end.
Another God wink for me.
As the other family gathered their belongings, not smiling, I looked at the Mom. Dad and daughter. I looked at Shawn and Jim and thought.... Thank you Dear Sweet Jesus that our daughters are healthy in mind and spirit. That they are productive members of society. Thank you for the work for their hands to do, which although quite different from each other are what they truly love to do. I am so grateful for all the times I would not give in to my girls. Being strong then, has paid off now, because they have a strong work ethic, are caring, loving young women, and love their family. My girls are young women with a strong constitution. Just what I wanted. I always said, I can not stomach a weak, wimpy woman. UGH!
There is a bright light shining in Shawn and Lindsay's eyes and in RB's eyes the light has gone out.
And so, my wish for you this evening, is that you can look in your mirror and know that you have done the best you could this day. I hope that you are proud of the decisions you have made knowing that they were for the good of the whole. Life can be really really challenging. It is a good day when I can smile at the person looking back at me in my mirror.
En` Joy,
~Marialyce
Last March 28, 2012, our family was burglarized in the night while we slept. We were all home. Jim and I heard what we thought was Shawn, going to her car because she forgot something, after we had gone to bed. There was no cause for alarm. We were not fearful or worried. Later we learned that someone broke in and took many things.
Yesterday was the preliminary hearing for this young woman. She is 28 years old and has a 2 year old son. She is a graduate of PSU and is a drug addict. We were in court yesterday and Shawn and I had to testify. The young woman's father, fed up with his daughter, testified against her. I understand the grandparents have custody of her baby. The Mom looks so haggard, worn out from all the troubles of her daughter. There is no light in her eyes. I looked into them as we awaited the final results of the hearing. I was advised not to go over and speak to her. I wanted to, though.
We learned that it was not proven that she was the person in our home. The fact that she had this computer in her possession when she was arrested and other belongings of ours, was only circumstantial evidence. But the DA said, this is just the beginning. She will go on trial in December or January for a Felony II charge, receiving stolen property and other charges. I would like this woman to learn a lesson. I keep asking Jesus, to guide me to what HE wants of me in this situation.
Prior to going to court I received this email message from Paul B. Taubman.....Your Gratitude Burst...
"Everything will be all right in the end, so if it not all right, then it is not the end."
Funny, but when I read this yesterday, I thought, we are not going to win this round. And we didn't. However, I do believe that it will be all right in the end. And it is not the end.
Another God wink for me.
As the other family gathered their belongings, not smiling, I looked at the Mom. Dad and daughter. I looked at Shawn and Jim and thought.... Thank you Dear Sweet Jesus that our daughters are healthy in mind and spirit. That they are productive members of society. Thank you for the work for their hands to do, which although quite different from each other are what they truly love to do. I am so grateful for all the times I would not give in to my girls. Being strong then, has paid off now, because they have a strong work ethic, are caring, loving young women, and love their family. My girls are young women with a strong constitution. Just what I wanted. I always said, I can not stomach a weak, wimpy woman. UGH!
There is a bright light shining in Shawn and Lindsay's eyes and in RB's eyes the light has gone out.
And so, my wish for you this evening, is that you can look in your mirror and know that you have done the best you could this day. I hope that you are proud of the decisions you have made knowing that they were for the good of the whole. Life can be really really challenging. It is a good day when I can smile at the person looking back at me in my mirror.
En` Joy,
~Marialyce
Sunday, October 21, 2012
Good Evening My Friend,
Last evening we had the most delightful time at Forgotten Orchard. We went to our friends house to celebrate the Autumn season. The evening included a bonfire, wagon ride pulled by their draft horses, Captain and Cody, amidst a backdrop of lively conversation, guitar playing and singing and delicious lite fare with the most wonderful people. We had a fabulous time.
This evening we are contemplating our court date which will be tomorrow afternoon. We have the preliminary hearing of our burglar, the woman who robbed from us in the night, while we slept, back in March. We have been patiently awaiting this day. And now it is the eve of our meeting this young woman. The emotions are difficult to pinpoint. Suffice is to say I have mixed emotions. Jim and Shawn are confident of their postion and I am still praying not only for her but for myself that I am making the best decision. I am prepared with my victim's statement and wondering if I will be called to the stand. The DA said to be prepared with a written and verbal statement.
Months ago I embarked on this new journey. I have no map, GPS or navigation system. God has guided me and I believe He will continue to do so throughout this ordeal, as well. I remember saying to Beth DuPree, my breast surgeon: I don't want to know you. I don't want to be a part of this world. And I have totally embraced the world of Breast Cancer and survivorship. I am thankful and grateful that I have been blessed with my wonderful life, post cancer. I can't imagine saying that I am grateful for being burglarized in the night, while we were home. And thankful that I know what it is like to be a victim in a court of law. But based on my experiences so far, it would not surprise me to discover that this experience too, will be a blessing in my life. It is all a matter of perspective and having faith.
Our God is an Awesome God!
And so, my wish for you this evening, is that when you are faced with a frightening experience, you can know for sure, that Jesus will be carrying you, just as I know HE is carrying me. He has been carrying me quite a bit lately. It is so nice to be that close to HIM. Thank you Jesus, for being my friend.
En` Joy,
Marialyce
Last evening we had the most delightful time at Forgotten Orchard. We went to our friends house to celebrate the Autumn season. The evening included a bonfire, wagon ride pulled by their draft horses, Captain and Cody, amidst a backdrop of lively conversation, guitar playing and singing and delicious lite fare with the most wonderful people. We had a fabulous time.
This evening we are contemplating our court date which will be tomorrow afternoon. We have the preliminary hearing of our burglar, the woman who robbed from us in the night, while we slept, back in March. We have been patiently awaiting this day. And now it is the eve of our meeting this young woman. The emotions are difficult to pinpoint. Suffice is to say I have mixed emotions. Jim and Shawn are confident of their postion and I am still praying not only for her but for myself that I am making the best decision. I am prepared with my victim's statement and wondering if I will be called to the stand. The DA said to be prepared with a written and verbal statement.
Months ago I embarked on this new journey. I have no map, GPS or navigation system. God has guided me and I believe He will continue to do so throughout this ordeal, as well. I remember saying to Beth DuPree, my breast surgeon: I don't want to know you. I don't want to be a part of this world. And I have totally embraced the world of Breast Cancer and survivorship. I am thankful and grateful that I have been blessed with my wonderful life, post cancer. I can't imagine saying that I am grateful for being burglarized in the night, while we were home. And thankful that I know what it is like to be a victim in a court of law. But based on my experiences so far, it would not surprise me to discover that this experience too, will be a blessing in my life. It is all a matter of perspective and having faith.
Our God is an Awesome God!
And so, my wish for you this evening, is that when you are faced with a frightening experience, you can know for sure, that Jesus will be carrying you, just as I know HE is carrying me. He has been carrying me quite a bit lately. It is so nice to be that close to HIM. Thank you Jesus, for being my friend.
En` Joy,
Marialyce
Thursday, October 18, 2012
Good Evening My Friend,
I watched a video tonight that truly touched my heart. Shawn sent me the YouTube clip and it was very moving. I will share it with all of you. I hope it touches you, as well. We all come to this world with gifts that we have a responsibility to share, and I believe that sharing those gifts will help others to reach their highest potential. Choose to live a purpose driven life.
I hope after viewing this that you are inspired to live your best life. I believe that my students are my teachers! They teach me everyday how being my authentic self can help others to live their authentic life.
What are your gifts? Please consider sharing them freely and generously with others. After all, it is what you are being called to do! Enjoy this moment and listen to the lyrics. Profound!
If you have trouble clicking on the link, perhaps copy and paste to view the clip! It seems to be a bit challenging, for some reason. But it is worth it!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QX-xToQI34I&feature=youtu.be
En` Joy,
Marialyce
I watched a video tonight that truly touched my heart. Shawn sent me the YouTube clip and it was very moving. I will share it with all of you. I hope it touches you, as well. We all come to this world with gifts that we have a responsibility to share, and I believe that sharing those gifts will help others to reach their highest potential. Choose to live a purpose driven life.
I hope after viewing this that you are inspired to live your best life. I believe that my students are my teachers! They teach me everyday how being my authentic self can help others to live their authentic life.
What are your gifts? Please consider sharing them freely and generously with others. After all, it is what you are being called to do! Enjoy this moment and listen to the lyrics. Profound!
If you have trouble clicking on the link, perhaps copy and paste to view the clip! It seems to be a bit challenging, for some reason. But it is worth it!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QX-xToQI34I&feature=youtu.be
En` Joy,
Marialyce
Monday, October 15, 2012
Good Evening Friends,
Yesterday I received a text from a woman I work with, who is also in the Club that we are starting in school. I respect her and admire her, she was helpful to me years ago when I needed her opinions. She told me that she had a little gift for me. She said, when I saw this I thought of you.
I went to receive my gift from Sue.... a pink towel with the Eagles Logo from the Pink weekend. I was touched that she wanted to give this to me. I actually smiled, telling her that a year ago, if she had given this to me, I would not have been able to accept the gift. Anything with the Breast Cancer ribbon, anything pink turned me off completely. It actually made me feel sick to my stomach.
I had a very hard time initially dealing with my diagnosis and subsequent surgeries. I remember Shawn telling me, Mom, just take your time and think about everything. You always make good decisions. My decision was to keep the whole experience to myself until I was able to digest it, and accept it. It took roughly 5 months before I told anyone of my ordeal. During those months of quietly listening to my inner voice, my intuition and asking for God's guidance, I came to know and understand that this was a part of my journey.
I began to actually be thankful for this cruel experience and loss of my breasts and grateful that I survived. Shawn suggested that I read the book "The Shack," to help me overcome the anger I initially had.... the time when I told God He was very disrespectful and rude to me, for I did everything that I was supposed to do with my body in caring for my family and my babies. I learned that the only way that I could lead the life I was truly meant to live, the only way that I would take the leap of faith and become an Inspriational Speaker, living my highest intention, was if I was able to move forward with my life and help other women find their constitutional strengtgh. Amazingly, He guides my every step, and actually helps me find peace and solace in my new endeavors. I walk confidently in His shadow, knowing that I am loved and cared for by Him.
After sharing my thoughts with Sue, she said she was sorry that she gave me the towel, but actually. NOW, one year later, I can talk about the journey and share all my feelings openly. I am in a much better place, THANK GOD! Thank you, God.
Sue gave me a book and marked the pages that she believed were meant for me. The pages read:
"Truly brave individuals slowly but surely rebuild their lives after suffering profound personal losses. The most important example of real courage is having the strength to pursue our dreams in a world full of obstacles and excuses." ~Bradley Trevor Grieve
I am in gratitude Sue for you, thinking that I am a brave woman with courage. I know I want to be brave and as the last page of the book says; "You will be someone who has the courage to seek out anything that stirs your heart and soul. And when opposing forces great and small shout out their dark challenge, you will be able to answer calmly and clearly, Bring it on, baby!"~ BTG
And so, my wish for you tonight is that you find your courage to face your opposing forces. You have a vanguard, you are prepared. You are brave. Every single thing that has happened to you in your life, has prepared you for this moment. God Bless
En` Joy,
Marialyce
Yesterday I received a text from a woman I work with, who is also in the Club that we are starting in school. I respect her and admire her, she was helpful to me years ago when I needed her opinions. She told me that she had a little gift for me. She said, when I saw this I thought of you.
I went to receive my gift from Sue.... a pink towel with the Eagles Logo from the Pink weekend. I was touched that she wanted to give this to me. I actually smiled, telling her that a year ago, if she had given this to me, I would not have been able to accept the gift. Anything with the Breast Cancer ribbon, anything pink turned me off completely. It actually made me feel sick to my stomach.
I had a very hard time initially dealing with my diagnosis and subsequent surgeries. I remember Shawn telling me, Mom, just take your time and think about everything. You always make good decisions. My decision was to keep the whole experience to myself until I was able to digest it, and accept it. It took roughly 5 months before I told anyone of my ordeal. During those months of quietly listening to my inner voice, my intuition and asking for God's guidance, I came to know and understand that this was a part of my journey.
I began to actually be thankful for this cruel experience and loss of my breasts and grateful that I survived. Shawn suggested that I read the book "The Shack," to help me overcome the anger I initially had.... the time when I told God He was very disrespectful and rude to me, for I did everything that I was supposed to do with my body in caring for my family and my babies. I learned that the only way that I could lead the life I was truly meant to live, the only way that I would take the leap of faith and become an Inspriational Speaker, living my highest intention, was if I was able to move forward with my life and help other women find their constitutional strengtgh. Amazingly, He guides my every step, and actually helps me find peace and solace in my new endeavors. I walk confidently in His shadow, knowing that I am loved and cared for by Him.
After sharing my thoughts with Sue, she said she was sorry that she gave me the towel, but actually. NOW, one year later, I can talk about the journey and share all my feelings openly. I am in a much better place, THANK GOD! Thank you, God.
Sue gave me a book and marked the pages that she believed were meant for me. The pages read:
"Truly brave individuals slowly but surely rebuild their lives after suffering profound personal losses. The most important example of real courage is having the strength to pursue our dreams in a world full of obstacles and excuses." ~Bradley Trevor Grieve
I am in gratitude Sue for you, thinking that I am a brave woman with courage. I know I want to be brave and as the last page of the book says; "You will be someone who has the courage to seek out anything that stirs your heart and soul. And when opposing forces great and small shout out their dark challenge, you will be able to answer calmly and clearly, Bring it on, baby!"~ BTG
And so, my wish for you tonight is that you find your courage to face your opposing forces. You have a vanguard, you are prepared. You are brave. Every single thing that has happened to you in your life, has prepared you for this moment. God Bless
En` Joy,
Marialyce
Saturday, October 13, 2012
Good Evening,
I got a text today from one of the teachers in our club at school. She said, it was so nice what the other teacher said about you when he introduced himself and told the group why he wants to be a part of this club. His words truly touched my heart. I was moved by his kind words. I may have shared this thought on an earlier blog but it bears repeating. What this teacher did for me by sharing his kind thoughts of me publicly was make me feel like I mattered and made a difference. It was another God wink for me, because how else would I know that I am living my highest intention if I didn't have messengers giving me uplifting messages that I am doing good things. I feel like the winks are my sign.
So people need three things in life. They need to feel Valued, Important and Needed. I remember this and teach this life lesson using the acronym VIN. When you make people feel valued, important and needed, not only do you lift them up, but they want to be around you all the time, because they like the way they feel about themselves when they are with you. What this wonderful man did was publicly share his thoughts, making me feel valued as a leader of our club. Wow! Thank you, MC.
We attended a birthday party today for our friend, Dave. Dave is a great man. I admire and respect him as a friend, husband and father. He has a quiet confidence and is a gentle soul. His daughter is a sweetheart, Danielle. She always has a warm smile, hug and a kind word. Dave's family surprised him and the party was a celebration of life for all who attended. Well Done!
I received this quotation today. "The best way to keep relationships happy, healthy and supportive can be summed up in one word: Appreciation. What you appreciate, appreciates. When we demonstrate our appreciation for the support we receive from others, it reinforces that behavior and deepens our conncetion to them." ~Marci Shimoff
How true!!!! And so, I wish for you this day, that you express your appreciation to another person in your life. Be specific in your expression. I am thankful to MC, and to SM for making me feel worthy of my efforts to get our club off the ground. I can tell you our club is a FORCE FIELD. IT WILL BE HUGE. I feel it, the energy is palpable. If you are interested, let me know and I will give you the website. I would like to keep the lid on this a little while longer, out of respect for the other school and their plans to reveal. But, trust me, the work we are doing will benefit all of our children. God Bless our children.
And God bless, Dave and Denice's children, Devin and Danielle for all their efforts to show their love, support and appreciation for their Dear Dad!
En `Joy,
Marialyce
Thursday, October 11, 2012
Good Evening,
This has been a busy time for me. I am working hard on building our Club at school and making sure that we are on the same page with the other school.... I feel as though this club is a movement and is taking on a life of its own. Induction is two weeks away, we have a meeting tomorrow, and I am preparing for both. I am filled with enthusiasm, passion and excitement.
I wanted to post today because I love the date...10/11/12. I kept mentioning the date to our students because I loved saying it. Today is 10/11/12! Even the date is in alignment!!!!!! God wink!
I read this quote today that I want to share....
"Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.
~Golda Meir
I have been watching inspirational clips to show to our students that come to our meeting. The one I chose for tomorrow is very good. I will provide you with the link.... I hope that you enjoy this clip!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v3sy630dY_k
And so, my wish for you this evening, is that you are in alignment with YOUR CALLING! Look for the God winks, they are all around you, if you only pay attention. Write to me, tell me when they happen to you. Thank you, Claudine, for sharing your synchronistic moment, your God wink, with me, this day! You made me feel so good within my heart when you said, that I inspired you to have the courage to step out of your comfort zone!
En ` Joy,
Marialyce
This has been a busy time for me. I am working hard on building our Club at school and making sure that we are on the same page with the other school.... I feel as though this club is a movement and is taking on a life of its own. Induction is two weeks away, we have a meeting tomorrow, and I am preparing for both. I am filled with enthusiasm, passion and excitement.
I wanted to post today because I love the date...10/11/12. I kept mentioning the date to our students because I loved saying it. Today is 10/11/12! Even the date is in alignment!!!!!! God wink!
I read this quote today that I want to share....
"Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.
~Golda Meir
I have been watching inspirational clips to show to our students that come to our meeting. The one I chose for tomorrow is very good. I will provide you with the link.... I hope that you enjoy this clip!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v3sy630dY_k
And so, my wish for you this evening, is that you are in alignment with YOUR CALLING! Look for the God winks, they are all around you, if you only pay attention. Write to me, tell me when they happen to you. Thank you, Claudine, for sharing your synchronistic moment, your God wink, with me, this day! You made me feel so good within my heart when you said, that I inspired you to have the courage to step out of your comfort zone!
En ` Joy,
Marialyce
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